Now that I know what a real profile looks like, I'll start by saying that there will be no play dates without having met in person out in the real world somewhere in a "just meeting up to have a drink and get a feel for each other setting." As I have before tried the desperately horny meetup with a stranger scenario, I can say that they were always akward and mostly all regretfull. You should be real, who you say you are, your photos should be accurate, as well as your intentions. Not taking the above mentioned pecautions in my opinion is setting yourself up for being really creeped out, disappointed, or sexually assulted (and not how you fantasize about!)