I have interests that run the gamut from music to video games to movies to architecture. I'm usually shy with the ladies, but once I get to know you, I get a lot more comfortable. Why am I here? Well, I hate the bar scene- unless there's an activity in the bar that one can participate in other than drinking (like karaoke, pub trivia, etc.)- and even then, the bar proprietors usually have the music on so loud that I can barely hear the conversation I'm trying to have. As for the naughty business, I'm still a little vanilla (though I've been known to be quite good at it), but wouldn't mind being introduced to some of the more kinky side of things, perhaps a touch of the light bondage or blindfolds. While I do find it quite appealing for the woman to be more controlling (if anything, it'll help me in terms of satisfying her), sometimes I know what I want, and will take charge. I don't post pictures of my genitalia online, but trust me, it's the right fit. ;-) If any of that sounds interesting, and you'd like to know more, just send me a flirt, message, smoke signal, whatever, and I'll probably get back to you in a very short amount of time. Oh, and don't use any of my profile or pictures elsewhere without my knowledge. That's just bad form.

My Ideal Person Currently, I'm not really interested in a full relationship because of extenuating circumstances, but it the right gal came along, who knows... While physical features are important in terms of attraction, a whip-like wit and intellect is also a major turn-on. A smoking hot ditz wouldn't stand a chance to a somewhat geeky smart gal. Especially if the smart gal is wearing glasses.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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