Hey folks, we are a happily married couple that just recently decided/admitted that we are both open to a different kind of relationship...so here we are.
We are more country then we are city. What does that mean? A couple acres to keep the neighbors away. Dirt bikes running laps around the house. Peeing off the deck. Parking in the lawn. Bonfires in the yard with cold beers, good music, and better friends. We love working on the house, riding motorcycles, hot tubs, good movies, home cooked food, camping, Spanish Coffee in the city, strip clubs, sex in the shower, dirty porn, hiking in the mountains, driving tractors, road trips to nowhere, travel....and we love each other.
We don't watch television, just feels like a waste of life. Neither of us uses any kind of drugs, we don't smoke, and we're both very healthy...no bugs.
We've been to sex clubs a few times and LOVE watching people have sex. What a turn on! But we've just never been much for having sex with a stranger. Without that connection or friendship it just never seemed comfortable, so the outcome was never as good as sex with someone we felt completely comfortable with. Well, that's us anyhow.
We do not parade our agenda or our lifestyle. What we choose to do and how we choose to live is our decision, not something we force upon friends and family. With that...he is very straight acting and very masculine. She is very soft spoken, straight acting, and very timid. This is as close to publicly announcing our lifestyle as we have every come. To meet us anywhere but this site you'd probably never think twice about the lifestyle we choose to lead.
My Ideal Person We are both bi and would truly enjoy meeting someone, man or woman or couple, that was bi and wanted to join our relationship. We hope to someday meet someone that is as attracted to us as we are to them. You might call it a poly relationship, or a unicorn, or whatever label you feel fits...we gave up on labels but we know what works for us. It's not just a one night deal we are looking for, it's a long term relationship we want. Sure, we might run across someone, or someones, and find ourselves tangled up in a hot sweaty mess with by morning....how is that different than any other type of relationship? The point is, we really want something that's more than ONLY that one night of passion. A partner. A friend. A lover. Someone that we see every day, night, and morning. BBQ's, movies, concerts, travel, weddings, funerals, family events, dinner with the us and the kids...everything.