Recently freed from a long-term and controlling relationship, and learning to live again. There is so much about me that I wish to discover and explore. The biggest being BDSM. Since my separation, I have felt my dominant side emerging from deep down within. Ultimately, I am looking for a long-term D/s or DD/lg relationship with a special someone. Vanilla Me: I am just your normal, average guy. I just bought my first "Solo" home meaning, I sold the house I shared with the Curmudgeon and bought my own. I move in soon. I am not saying this to brag but, merely to show that I have my shit together. I am drug and disease free. I have adult stepchildren and none of my own (that I am aware of). I enjoy outdoor activities such as camping, hunting and fishing, golf, and taking my for a run on the beach. I have recently started a hobby in woodworking that I hope to expand into creating a side hustle that could include BDSM furniture. Kink Me: I have been an unfulfilled submissive most of my adult life for reasons that can be discussed later but, since my divorce I have noticed my Dominant side pushing itself to the head of the line. It would be nice to find someone that would be willing to help me explore this newly emerging side of me. I have begun a journey into rope play and wish to pursue it further with someone just as eager to learn or, even teach. Impact play, restraints, blindfolds and other sensory stimulation scenarios are a lot of fun for me. My Partner: I am pansexual. I believe that communication between partners is key to a healthy relationship. This is something I have learned the hard way from my previous relationship and vow to not make that mistake again. I am an affectionate person. I need to touch and be touched. I need to feel appreciated and in return, will do the same for you. Respect goes a long way.