I want to be upfront with this so no one feels they are being deceived as to what it is I am seeking and what I am not: I am married, I am not looking for happily ever after or any other committed relationship. I am seeking a friend to chat with most days and occasionally meet up for play. My wife is aware of what I am doing but we have so discretion is still a must. I am college educated, gainfully employed, non smoking, no drugs, and in-spite of what this site promotes I am very respectful.