This is my equation: my inclination to want to have sex with you is equal to my inclination to want to hang out with you (with clothes on) over a beverage. Both have to be in place for me to want to proceed, regardless of how succulent your cock might be (and I've seen that there are many enticing ones here). So, truly seeking friends with benefits and what that entails. Sex unto itself isn't enough to hold my interest. When I'm online it more than likely means that I'm simply here just to look at all of your hot pics....I'm in a long term relationship that is no longer physical and has been open for the past 10 years. I don't hook up haphazardly, am quite selective about a play partner. I'm seeking an intelligent connection that is mutually satisfying with someone who is interested in getting together on an ongoing basis (maybe once a month). My partner wants me to be discrete so a little planning would be involved in order to meet, plus my work schedule can sometimes be hectic. I love all things erotic and sensual

My Ideal Person Men who have read what I have written above and whose interests line up with what I've described. Also men who enjoy stimulating conversation--the brain is the primary sex organ

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach, A remote wilderness spot, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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