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SexySWCouple 69 / 67 / C
"We appreciate the erotic side of sharing!"
Las Cruces, New Mexico, United States
 
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SexySWCouple 69/C
Las Cruces, New Mexico
I wrote a book on the lifestyle on Amazon Kindle. The title is: Beyond the norm: A couples' guide to non-monogamous sex ~ Janey
Introduction
There are a number of things you should keep in mind about us as you read our profile. When we first joined this lifestyle years ago, politics or hate, never seemed to enter into our discussions with others. Then along came Trump, and his white supremacist, anti-semitic followers. And, following the seditious attack on our nation's capital in January 2021, we felt as if we needed to draw a line; did we really want to find ourselves in bed with people who just hated others simply because of the color of their skin, or their belief (or non belief)? Obviously no. In light of the multiple indictments of Trump for felony crimes against our country, if for some incomprehensible reason you still love him, we aren't a match! Now, on to our profile: About me (Janey): I have an open relationship with my husband, David. We are also swingers - although I find that word rather old-fashioned, reminiscent as something certain middle class white couples did in the comfort of their respective and beautifully appointed living rooms. Think: "key clubs". For the past seven years, I have shared a close and very sexual relationship with another woman. I have, as my husband recently observed, an enviable sex life. I am still involved in that relationship and because of that, we've made the decision to change our profile to "Soft Swing". Soft swing can mean many different things for different people: for us, It simply means, we will still meet and play with others, however I (janey) will not be sharing intercourse with other men. My interaction with other women is only limited by our attraction for each other. We are both available to meet any new couples or single women and men along with my husband, but I can't promise I'll want to share intercourse with other men. As a couple, we might best be described as "Sapiosexual" (we find intelligence in others sexually attractive or arousing). I believe I (Janey) have evolved sexually over the past five or so years. I enjoy parties, meeting others, flirting, and dressing provocatively. We understand the need for discretion - there are few on this site who have a better reason for being discrete. So, please know that, if we quiz you about where you live and what you do, it’s to protect all of us from a potentially embarrassing situation. We're not needlessly probing your history - we just need to make sure we're not actually neighbors or colleagues (or worse, cousins!). But there's much, much more. STD TESTING: So many on here talk about being Disease Free - we wonder how many truly know? How many have been tested (recent and often) and willing to share those results with others? We have been tested recently and we've committed to testing at least two to three times a year - and yes, we'll share those results with those friends whom we want to know. If you have questions, don't hesitate to ask us.

My Ideal Person More about me (Janey):

I'm a baby boomer and social smoker. I enjoy smoking with others. Crazy I know, but when I'm at a gathering I find this to be an opportunity to break away from the pack and get to know fellow smokers on the patio.

We've made some lovely friends in the local bondage scene. I am a budding aficionado of the art of rope tying and find it a most beautiful privilege to watch a woman deftly manipulate a soft rope with a series of perfect knots in order to gently incapacitate another person. I want to learn all the knots.

I am also learning to appreciate the sting that is left after a flogger hits the right mark, and achieves the satisfying slap! I relish the after burn.

So; now you know a bit more about us and probably want to know what we're looking for? I (janey) am interested in sharing with another sexy woman.

I do also enjoy being an exhibitionist so you might find me flirting with others and openly playing with my husband at parties.

A bit about David:

David is open to almost all play - he has played with both women and men. He has few if any inhibitions and is happy to explore "outside the box".
- If you would like to talk to him, feel free to reach out. You have no worries about "angry wife syndrome" - I love to see my husband happy with whomever he chooses. We are true soulmates and partners for life, but there's no reason I can't share his wonderful nature with others.

He's a gentle lover when necessary, and a can easily switch gears, and show you how talented he is at spanking, flogging and lots of other lite BDSM activities, if you choose. He loves to make sure his playmate is happy.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Fantasies...aren't those things your supposed to wish
you might do, but usually aren't easily achieved? <br><br>
Hmmmm...we used to have fantasies....we wouldn't exactly
call them that anymore...we seem to be fulfilling all our
fantasies...all the time!

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Leather, Massage, Erotic tantric massage, Light anal occasionally

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Real people are so much better than celebrities....,

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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  • 69/67 / Couple (man/woman)
  • Las Cruces, New Mexico, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Straight / Bi-sexual
Looking For:  Women, Couples (man/woman), Groups, Couples (2 women) or Trans
Marital Status: Married
Swinger Type: Sex with others
Speaks: English
Have Children: Yes. We do not live together.
Want Children: Happy with what we have
Our Trophy Case:
 
His
Her
Birthdate: December 22, 1954 April 6, 1956
Relocate?: No No
Height: 5 ft 8 in / 172-175 cm 5 ft 1 in
Body Type: Average Slim/Petite
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I use some recreational drugs I use some recreational drugs
Education: BA/BS (4 years college) BA/BS (4 years college)
Occupation: Business (Management Advertising/Video Production
Race: Caucasian Caucasian
Religion: Agnostic Agnostic
Male Endowment: Average/Thick N/A
Circumcised: Yes N/A
Bra Size: N/A 32 / 70 B
Hair Color: Brown Brown
Hair Length: Short Prefer not to say
Eye Color: Brown Hazel