IM me! Love to chat / cam, we'll see were things go... ;-1 Lookin for adventures or just a good FWB! Update to profile 2023: Wow, I'm now 45! WTF! I have too many video games to play and way more sex to have; can't slow down yet! Hah! Well, I've been on this site for well over 20 years now and to anyone who actually reads the profiles - you're awesome! Just a reminder to any Gold Members reading this: I cannot read the emails you send. This site changed that a while back, now it's not possible, so if you wanna say hi, please do so through chat. Thank you. I'll start the about me with, I like to get to know someone a bit before I meet up, so if you see me on chat or cam, don't think I'll stop stroking it long enough to meet up with you right then and there, though there are always exceptions to the rules, and this is especially true if you are willing to show pics of yourself or cam-chat. ;-p Also, I tend to be on the shy side, but have certainly been less shy as time goes by. I enjoy hanging out with friends, watching movies, playing video games, and laughing at just about everything. (I enjoy the hell out of life and don't take much seriously!) I'm a fan of most types of music & with movies my top three would be action, anime, & comedy. Appearance: I have blue eyes & have long sandy-brown hair, usually clean shaven, slim but muscled build & wear glasses or contacts. ..And, yes, I am married. However we are in a open relationship. We have been together for over 27 years are still very much in love. She no longer plays with anyone. So, if you're interested in getting together, its just me.

My Ideal Person I'm straight looking for sex &/or friendship with another woman (as well as an adventurous couples or groups). I consider myself at least a little kinky, maybe more, I'm VERY open-minded, & would like to try new imaginative things.
I enjoy women that are average to thick & I have a weakness for big tits, but that's probably typical for most guys I very much love a women that enjoys being pleasured. I get off best when I know that I have fulfilled a woman the way she wanted. & While a rough & wild quickie is fun, foreplay is almost always a must. I Love being teased, teasing, massaging, & most of all, putting my tongue ring to great use.
Ideally, I'd love to meet a fellow geek/gamer type person. Someone that maybe one weekend would want some stress relief under the sheets and the next, just wants to hangout ad play video games. A simple FWB that isn't looking for anything long term in me. (Ah, a man can dream, can't he...)

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Would love to get wild, party, hang out or chat, just drop me a line.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Metallica, Disturbed, Incubus, Gorillaz, Korn, Ludacris,
Outkast, Five Finger Deathpunch,

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Of course, who doesn't. Drew Barrymore!

Have you ever had cybersex?:
Unsure/Prefer not to say

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