I have been cross-dressing off-and-on for many years, but in private. Now I am retired and am far less concerned with the consequences of being found out. I rarely dress as a woman now and infrequently go out in public, so dressed. Yet I still love the experience of it when I do. I eventually would like to spend the last years of my life living full-time as a woman. But I am not interested in undergoing full trans-surgery yet. I am taking hormones to create feminine breasts, am working on removing my beard permanently, and had my testes removed surgically. If these efforts are fulfilling I may go further. I am seeking social and emotional support from others sympathetic with and possibly sharing my orientation and helping me achieve my goals. Generally I will not "friend" anyone who is not exchanging messages with me. My friends and I communicate with one another.

My Ideal Person My ideal partner is an older gay or bi-man who will be totally comfortable taking me out on dates when I am dressed as a woman, and treating me as a mature woman while being my manly man in public. I also am seeking mature TV/CD girlfriends with whom I can go shopping, have lunches, and swap fashion and styling tips, and possibly engage in mutual oral play. What I am not looking for is a gay male who only wants me just for gay sex. I will engage in sex play in drag with a man who will let me be the woman when we go to bed together. I enjoy being video-recorded and photographed at play, as you can see. If you are not in my area, I am willing to exchange messages and share feelings and experiences with you; but my hope is being with like-oriented TV/CDs or men who want to date a TG/CD. I can host occasionally. You are welcome to visit me if you are near-by. If on IM, and I seem not to reply, it is because IM and I do not work together well. All too often I cannot create an active link.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
The Knack, Fleetwood Mack, Laura Brannigan, Judy Collins

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Role Playing, Cross Dressing, Voyeurism

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Not really.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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