I have always been bi-curious and found women very beautiful. However, i never had the chance to explore that option and quite honestly dont know where to start. I believe my lack of sexual experience with women makes me naive, but anyone down to explore and teach me a few things, im down to try mostly anything. I like to do light bdsm, I am more or less a switch but lean more toward sub. Once i gain more confidence in myself, I may be more adventurous in where we engage such things as far as the setting/locations - as change of environment is definitely a turn on. Perality/hobbies: I am a homebody type of per who likes occasional outings with friends i like low maintenance people as I am one myself. I am pretty laid-back and love food. I enjoy Boba, ps4, Wii-U, etc., anime, Netflix and other streaming, podcasts (what's your favorite?), wine or the occasional brewery. I am pretty blunt, but kind and I strive for honest communication between friends and whomever i engage myself with. It would be awesome if you have a sense of humor but not required. I'm pretty sarcastic myself & do enjoy the lighter aspects of life. I am also drama free and prefer to keep things discreet - please be the same as well. P.S. i am not comfortable doing anything at my home, so please dont ask. Anything else just ask (;

My Ideal Person Even though im not looking for anything serious, at least not at the moment, i still need to establish a connection with you & i would prefer if you like to engage in conversation with me. Friendships, friends w/benefits or long term friendships are ideal.

A partner in crime - basically someone who is down to explore new things. I've always wanted to check out a swing club with someone but dont have any friends that are down just to check it out 💁


Sorry guys - I'm not interested. I made this to explore my sexuality not be with people im already used to. Please dont bother. I already have a male partner in life that i do not plan to share with anyone for the time being.

Also this should go without saying - but just in case - please be STD free and/or get tested regularly. Thanks for understanding.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, A swimming pool or hot tub, A hotel room, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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