About me: I have been in the lifestyle for almost two years now. I am naturally submissive and even prior to realizing my role I always knew something was missing. After meeting my first Dom who introduced me to this lifestyle and helped me realize what I truly wanted in life, I finally felt fully alive for the first time. I am high energy, goofy, very girly, animated and caring. I do have to get a little serious below to avoid frustration in the future. But when you meet me you will quickly see that I am fun loving and 100% submissive, loyal and honest. What I'm looking for: I am looking for a long term relationship. My ideal situation would be to meet the right Dom for me and live our lives together, with me serving him always and a lot of kink! While I do enjoy some pain when playing, rules, expectations and punishments I have learned over the last two years that I also need affection, cuddling, dates and kissing. Words of affirmation are very important to me especially when I'm fully submitted to a Dom. Hearing that I please him and make him happy is what I live for. My ideal Dom would be strict and firm but have a caring, affectionate side as well. Someone who understands that submission is a gift and earned as the sub begins to trust and feel safe with a Dom. I will not submit to you just because you are a Dom and send me an email. If you are interested in being my Dom then get to know me so we can see if we are a good fit. I am not in a hurry and will NOT go into any agreement without talking, spending time, negotiating and having extensive conversations. For me I need to feel a specific connection to become your submissive. I am looking for something long term and that will not happen after one day of texting. Please do not send me tasks. Until I become your submissive I will not be doing tasks that are asked of me. Again the Dom I choose will know that it isn't done that way. Play partners: As I'm on my quest to find my long term Dom I am open to play partners. Again I need to feel a certain connection and vibe. I am not someone that can just play with anyone. I also do not like to have different partners all the time. I do like to have more long term partners so that I am not simply hooking up with different people all the time. I need my play partners to know when I do meet the right Dom for me the play with them will have to end. I will not come to your house without meeting you first. If I say no or I'm not interested please do not be mean or keep hounding me. There has to be a mutual attraction and vibe. Even when I play I go into submission mode that is what is most enjoyable to me. I do enjoy kissing along with a good belt whipping. I like someone who can kiss and cuddle then spank me hard. Jo :-)