I'm nice, sane, easy going, no drama or angst, disease and drug free. I understand that everyone else's life is as busy as mine. I’m looking for a friend with benefits. I'm happy with my domestic life and won't change it (and don't want you to change yours), but I'd like a regular, awesome, easygoing, no drama lover. I'm pretty easy going, have a dry sense of humor and can be a bit goofy. Despite shunning suits, ties and khakis (I went into business for myself to get away from the corporate thing) I've been described by multiple people as sophisticated. I have multiple degrees; a technical undergraduate and a master of art. Physically, I'd say I'm average with the exception of being more muscular than the average middle-aged man. I take a great deal of pride in exercising daily and trying always improve myself.

My Ideal Person If I'm having sex with you, I feel enough chemistry between us to care about you as a friend. I am NOT going to fall in love with you and I don't want you getting emotionally attached to me. I'm not changing my life for you and I don't want you changing your life for me. That probably - probably means a suitable partner-in-crime is married or attached who just needs a dependable, discreet "friend" on the side. That also probably means a good match will be close my age or even older. If you understand that previous sentence and are good with it, please say hello.

I don't have a preferred type. I've thought every woman I've been with is beautiful despite them all being very different from each other. Personality, chemistry, confidence and physique in that order. There are personal turn-offs for me; both personal and physical, but I won't know what they are until we've chatted. So please introduce yourself. I look forward to it.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Threesomes

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

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