I am 63 years of age, completely unattached, educated, employed full-time and live alone in Richmond Hill, Ontario (north GTA). I'm a Dominant Male seeking a submissive woman, or even better, one who wishes to explore her submissive side in the bedroom but doesn't know where to begin. Please, allow me to be your guide and your teacher. I know that many so-called Dominants say that they are experienced, but in fact all they want is a cook-and-bottle washer who sucks cock. I call them 50-shaders. I assure you, that is not me. I have been a Dominant for 25+ years. I am dedicated to my craft, and am sincere in my desires. I do not prey on women with low self-esteem, abusing them emotionally and physically. That is not what being a Dominant is all about; that's not what I am all about. And it's definitely not what I believe being a submissive is all about. You are strong, independent, intelligent and self-assured. You simply like to give up control under well-defined circumstances. As with any relationship, the satisfaction of YOUR needs is JUST as important as the satisfaction of mine. It's a 2-way street. Some of those needs are the same: we want to be loved, cared for, respected, supported, cuddled, pampered, and sexually & emotionally satisfied. Some needs are different. I wish to have my needs as a Dominant satisfied. I want to love, train, guide, and nurture my submissive. She will have a strong need to serve and to please, where the commission of any particular act in itself may not give her direct pleasure, but the knowledge she has pleased her Master in committing that act gives her tremendous (indirect) pleasure. Again, I seek a loving, caring, respectful relationship with a Dominant/submissive dynamic. Are you out there? PS, if you are not willing to supply at least one picture, please, again, don't waste my time, nor yours. Thank you

My Ideal Person A submissive women or one who is curious and would like to talk (and perhaps more) about exploring the world of Domination and submission. As well, if you are not local, (meaning within a 4 hour drive of Toronto) again don't waste my time nor yours.

Having said all of that, if you are still reading, I'd like to chat. We HAVE to begin with conversation! You are intelligent, funny, curious, open to experimentation, attractive in your own eye. You are spontaneous and fun.

You love spring, and autumn, but especially summer! Sunshine, swimming, skinny-dipping, outdoor play, fires by the lake and stargazing. Being a fan of hockey (especially the Leafs) will earn you serious brownie points!

You have a deep-seated need to submit, to serve, to learn and to please, or at the very least, the curiosity and desire to explore this side of your sexuality.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Having 2 women, where for least 1 of them, it's their
1st bisexual experience. <br><br>
I would like them to explore naturally, with some direction
from me. I would video and photograph the entire encounter

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, The middle of a park, An airplane, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room, Pretty much anywhere. adventurous

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Fisting, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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