[B]**Note** If i am on my webcam, it is for playing music in chatrooms, nothing more. I will not be getting naked, i will not flash...please stop asking.[/B] [br] Let's see... I'm a bit too shy to bounce around or get sexually involved too quickly. i have a naughty side, i'm just cautious about letting it shine through. [B]I don't do random hooks up![/B] [br] \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\**UPDATE-please read** I won’t be amending my profile on here, but I need to clarify something. I met someone on here years ago. I fell for him and we got married. I’ve been trapped in a sexless marriage with someone I met ON A SEX SITE! Not at all what I expected. I care about him still, but it’s ridiculous to admit how long I’ve gone without actual intercourse. I have been seeking physical activities elsewhere. But I’m not your average “on the side” person. I didn’t decide this lightly (i used to pride myself on being loyal to a fault). I know it’s not everyone’s preference, so I understand if you move on. But also understand if making that connection gets complicated on my end. I’m doing what I can with the situation I have for now. [br] i'm the type of person who thrives in a relationship, but i dont expect to necessarily find one on here (although i have once before). i like people who are respectful to women, and really to people in general. i like to have conversations with people. not always the "what are you wearing" kind. more of the "how was your day" or the "what do you think about..." kinds of conversations. sorry, i may have breasts but i have a mind as well! (go figure!)

My Ideal Person I'm looking for a man (preferably local to my area) who can handle someone who isn't trying to be a Barbie girl. i'm a big beautiful girl, with a heart and personality to match. I'm not a fan of jumping from guy to guy; I'd prefer a guy who can be a friend and confidant, to hang out with as well as be interested in some adult fun. i do have a preference for older men (its mostly a maturity thing, but not completely), but i dont exclude those who are younger, especially if they are smart, quick-witted and kind.

I’m looking for someone who can be understanding about a complicated situation and exercise discretion.

bottom line: I can be fun in SO many ways; you just have to be willing to take the time to give me a chance.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
30 Seconds to Mars, Anberlin, Close Your Eyes, Jimmy Eat World, Cartel, The Maine, etc.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), A remote wilderness spot, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Spanking, Mutual Masturbation

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual appetite, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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