Swishy, pretty and well read Unicorn seeks gentle giant for occasional trots into Fantasy together. You'll already be tethered and LOVE your partner very much, but you don't want to leave... you just want to feel safe and secure with a secret lover. I am in love with my husband but he sadly lost his sex drive a few years ago. He is a lot older than I am and I guess his loss of drive was, sadly, inevitable. I've thought about seeking a lover for some time now, but have been afraid to dare to, mainly because I don't want "Tinder Man", "Sleeze Man", "Out of The Country Man" nor "Out of Work Man" 🙄 If I am here, perhaps there's a slim chance that a like minded romantic entered this site too - there's always hope ! A little about me, I am a PA with a Psychology Degree, love messing around with TRX and my ultimate real life "fantasy" would be a Director hires me as his PA and my job ends up being more fulfilling than the job description ;) Now that would be wish fulfilment in action (PC Brigade beware). No photo because I value my career but very happy to exchange a few emails and then talk to each other on the phone, see how we feel. I am not looking for a One Night Stand, just a really great guy who can identify with my situation and wants a secret best friend. Ps. I really don't like moustaches, it's not my thing.