We are a happy, healthy, active and friendly married poly couple. We have a wonderful relationship and also seek to find a compatible male third. Why? Because it is fun and interesting with the right person .and we believe we humans have the capacity to love more than one person at a time. Who We Are: We are late 50’s early 60’s, very healthy and active, both successful professionals. Husband is a cuckold. She is very much a sapiosexual. He is the Engineering Director at a local firm, she is a best-selling author, coach and speaker. We have busy professional lives but willing to make time for a quality friend and partner. We seek an actual friendship and relationship with another man, not just a "play" partner. . We value honesty, authenticity, intelligence, a sense of humor, and impeccable grooming and personal hygiene. Friendly, kind and outgoing, we appreciate these same qualities in a partner. We would hope to go camping, date (all three of us or you with her alone) explore some music or cultural events with you, dining in or out. We are looking for a boyfriend: not a hook up.

My Ideal Person You: Also embody and value the qualities listed above. You too want a quality friendship with quality people. You are willing to make the time for getting acquainted, and developing a fun, playful and respectful relationship. You are capable of acting domineering to him when we play, but understand She is NEVER submissive. You are not married or seriously partnered and have time to develop a quality connection. We view this process exactly like we would if we were single looking for someone to date. If you seek a really quality fun partnership with a couple, be willing to invest the time to develop it. We promise you it will be worth it.
Other things to know: Our hard limits: no extreme play, NO smokers, or heavy drinkers or drug users. Dress and have personal hygiene like it matters. Show up, be authentic, be curious and an easy conversationalist and you are in. Bonus points for a great sense of humor and ability to be flirty and playful. IMPORTANT: We are ethically non monogamous, meaning if you are cheating on your wife or girlfriend: you are not for us. Only open honest and authentic.
Also: please DO NOT send me pictures of your penis. If you can photograph your brains and sense of humor: those will go a lot further with me

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Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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