Fully vaccinated Vasectomy as of 8/24/2022 I'm a 40 year old, laid back, professor. I work hard so I can enjoy my time off. I moved to Wilmington a few years ago. Looking for someone fun. I would say FWB, but that seems to have a different connotation these days. I want someone I can talk and hang out with. laugh and joke and text obnoxious jokes to. Someone to cuddle up with and watch a silly show or movie with. And I also want a lover. Yes, a Lover. not just a quick fling. I want to spend hours in bed kissing and holding and pleasing one another. 50/50, you and me, finding happiness. I want to kiss and make out, slowly caress and worship your body for hours even before we get down to it. Though nothing wrong with fast and dirty and a little mean when the mood hits. More about me... I am 6'-2", average build. Glasses or contacts, whatever. Grey-blue eyes and my blonde hair is thin and mostly gone, kept cut short. I am clean and expect you to be as well. Yes, that includes disease free, but also just clean. If I am so amazing, how am I not taken? You might ask. Well... I am. I am happily married and completely honest with her. We are in an open, ethical, poly-amorous relationship. No she won't be joining us, she is Asexual. Yes you can ask if you are curious. I'm always happy to chat about whatever. She has asked me to follow a few rules. Stay clean and safe. Play elsewhere. Come home to her. She might ask questions and be curious, but she won't be joining us. She is asexual, not gay or bi. No, there is no "fixing that", so no need to ask. Stop being rude. And yeah, don't be rude. If you're still curious, and would like to chat, hit me up on my blog. I've set up a free way to contact me. As a standard member, I can't see emails. And I've only so many points to IM (if it even works LOL ). Speaking of my blog, if you are curious, I do have one. Sharing ideas. Feel free to say hi there.

My Ideal Person First off, be yourself. That's the most important thing. Now, it would also be nice if you were smart and silly and sexy (all those amazing S things, ha ha). Tell me what you're looking for, chat with me. Even if it doesn't work out, a little conversation is great.

Note: It would be nice if you were at least relatively local. I'd like someone I can see more than once a blue moon.

If you'd like to chat, write me on my blog.