First of all my screenname was lacking of creativity on my part. The mistress part does not mean I’m a dom or bossy or like I’m wanting control. It just means a lover, someone you see, talk to about anything and it’s not repeated etc. I like direct and men who take control! No sissy like men no subs! No bi men! Nothing sexier then a man acting as a man! I am not very fond of married men for this situation. It honestly makes me uncomfortable. I am single! I want someone single, maybe you’re in between a relationship (just broke up/taking a break from relationships etc). I am plus size, 42DDD. Nipple stimulation is my most desired form of fourplay. I may be interested in an ANR (it is possible, just not guaranteed). White men only. Prefer older than 40 but no older than 62. I like wearing lingerie and like a man who enjoys the woman in it and likes to spoil her occasionally with it.