A bundle of contradictions. "Queer" but not attracted to men (sorry boys). Gender dysphoric but not transitioning. Cynical and sarcastic but empathetic and considerate. Pragmatic but eccentric. Obviously nonconformist but conservative. Quiet introvert but with an exhibitionist streak. Married but yet here I am. I'm one of those "non-binary", "gender-fluid" androgynous pers (don't label me man...), at least as much as anyone can be in the rural SE US. I can present male or female depending on mood or what I'm doing. Normally I just split the difference. Not given to dressing up and I don't over-try to be "girlie". I'm comfortable with my fate of being somewhere in between genders, even if it weirds most people out.

My Ideal Person I'm just here for friends and the interesting people that put up with A F F for some reason. Not going to drive for hours to meet you and sure not going to let you fuck me (on a first date ). Most interested in other transfolk (MTF, FTM, NonsLikeMe), women, couples, whatever, even guys if you are polite.