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backinhtown76 47 / M
"How far down the rabbit hole do you want to go?"
Portland, Oregon, United States
 
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backinhtown76 47/M
Portland, Oregon
The Full Honey Moon was incredible. I hope you all are soaking up that energy, it is so invigorating and empowering.
Introduction
Hello and thank you for taking the time to read my profile. This site can be challenging to make real connections with real people who are interested in meeting in person. I appreciate the genuine people I have met here and hope to find other people interested in connection, chemistry and intimacy. I've been hypersexual all of my life. Through many years of both personal growth and development as well as exploring, learning, and practicing I've developed a very particular set of skills and energy that I enjoy sharing with the right partner or partners. In my younger years I believed that pleasing my partner was about technique, so I read books and studied as much as possible about how to please a woman. There is a complexity and depth to female sexuality that was confusing to me at times. Three years ago I began exploring further beyond my comfortable boundaries. I discovered a depth of sexuality that I didn't realize was possible. It was as if I had been experiencing sex in black and white and now it was all in color with the depth, hues, saturation and pixels exploding in orgasmic color. This shift was based around understanding both the science and spirituality of sex. Studying the neuroscience of desire and kink I recognized the importance of the brain in allowing the body to fully embrace an intimate moment. Vulnerability can be fear inducing and many many people have trauma from unpleasant or horrible sexual experiences. With so much underlying emotion and experience it is often difficult to fully relax and be open to an experience with a new partner. The need particularly for women to protect themselves from abusive and creepy men is unfortunate and necessary. Once trust and connection is established there are a myriad of ways to get the right brain synapses firing to create intensity, depth, and abundance. I prefer to start with a tea or a cocktail and some conversation to determine if there's enough chemistry and attraction to progress. After that, the method that I prefer to use to create trust, connection and intimacy is through accessing the sacred sexuality found in everyone. One particular method that is incredibly effective is to give a tantric massage to a new partner. With clear communication and consent about what they are comfortable with, I allow my hands to relax their body and mind. My fingers slowly tracing their skin, working out their kinks and knots and learning their body. I also incorporate breath work into the massage which helps stay mindful and present while still embracing the experience. By focusing solely on relaxing their body and connecting through touch we can share a healing and erotic experience together and tune our bodies rhythms to work in synchronicity. Then once that connection has been established, I enjoy delving deeper into the erotic arts. My primary medium for this is Shibari, Japanese rope bondage. I find a particular satisfaction in bondage because it engages so well with both my creative and technical side. I feel honored any time someone let's me tie them in my rope. It takes a lot of trust and I cherish that trust. I also love giving people a really positive, pleasurable and fun experience with rope bondage, particularly if it's new to them. There are many ways to incorporate it without feeling trapped or unsafe, unless that is something you desire. If any of these words resonate with you I encourage you to reach out to me. It can be exhausting trying to connect with people here due to the number of fake and scam accounts. Good luck to you on your journey, may you find what you're looking for.

My Ideal Person My ideal person is open minded and in tune with their body. They enjoy giving and receiving pleasure and are seeking a deeper connection than purely physical pleasure. While there will be plenty of that, the focus is on sharing energy and touch, not simply having an orgasm. Orgasms are lovely and certainly a cherry on top of the rich sundae that is sacred sexuality and kink. Ideally they would understand energy work and enjoy massage and touch. They would be open to exploring rope bondage or already experienced with it.

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  • 47 / male
  • Portland, Oregon, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Straight
Looking For:  Women, Groups or Couples (2 women)
Birthdate: November 28, 1976
Travels to: New Orleans, Louisiana, United States
Hometown: Houston, Texas, United States
Relocate?: Maybe/Yes
Marital Status: Single
Height: 5 ft 9 in / 175-177 cm
Body Type: A little extra padding
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I don't use drugs
Education: BA/BS (4 years college)
Occupation: Carpenter
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Agnostic
Have Children: No
Want Children: Maybe
Male Endowment: Average/Thick
Circumcised: No
Speaks: English
Hair Color: Brown
Hair Length: Short
Eye Color: Green
Glasses or Contacts: None
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