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bigtom1963 59 / 40 / C
"Looking for 2sums, 3sums or moresums"
London, United Kingdom
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bigtom1963 59/C
London, London , United Kingdom
Time for an update. This is a couple's profile because although Tina my fuck buddy dumped me for a younger guy (after saying how much she likes older guys), we still meet up occasionally for 3sums or 4 sums (though we both find 3sums hotter). Even though, in the words of Leonard Cohen I sometimes ache in the places where I used to play, I still play plenty. And I find the older I get the more younger girls seem to like me. But then I always said girls are weird. Or maybe it's just my endowment - long and thick. You should ideally be 18-35, slim/petite with a nice ass and an even nicer face. I'm also looking for online fun but it could lead to meets anywhere in the world (I travel a lot)- drinks first, maybe dinner then who knows. If it works out I will make sure we both have a great time with orgasms guaranteed but foreplay and oral can be as good as fucking. I like straight sex but with a bit of a twist - something slightly kinky, like spanking or mild bondage. I love touching and more in public places like bars and I love swingers clubs. I also like watching or videoing. Look forward to hearing from you.

My Ideal Person Cute, bright, pretty, sexy, fun and funny younger girls (18-35) or couples. Or two girls.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Fisting, Massage

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  • 59/40 / Couple (man/woman)
  • London, United Kingdom
Sexual Orientation:
Straight / Bi-curious
Looking For:  Women, Couples (man/woman), Groups or Couples (2 women)
Marital Status: Married
Swinger Type: Sex with others
Speaks: English
Have Children: Yes. We sometimes live together.
Our Trophy Case:
Birthdate: December 23, 1963 June 30, 1982
Relocate?: No No
Height: 6 ft 0 in / 182-185 cm 5 ft 5 in
Body Type: Average Slim/Petite
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker Prefer not to say
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: Prefer not to say Prefer not to say
Education: Master's degree BA/BS (4 years college)
Occupation: Film maker PA
Race: Caucasian Caucasian
Religion: Prefer not to say Prefer not to say
Male Endowment: Long/Average N/A
Circumcised: No N/A
Bra Size: N/A 34 / 75 C
Hair Length: Short Long
Eye Color: Brown Green
Glasses or Contacts: None None