i (the chick) am very out going and talkative. he's more reclusive but is pretty cool once he gets to know someone and opens up. we don't take things too seriously, we like to joke around and make fun of everything. we are both height and weight proportional and are looking for close to the same in others. she likes to go out, drink and have a good time. he'd rather stay at home or just drive around and listen to music. we're looking for someone or a couple that we can invite to our house for cookouts and be around our family and other friends without letting on that we are screwing each other behind closed doors. we like to keep the distance of the people we meet within 75 miles of our town. we have s and can't go too far away. so unless you're willing to make most of the drive just keep that in mind. plus we are trying to find some "regulars" that can be our friends and don't expect to get it on every time we hang out.