Finally signed back up for Gold after a two year hiatus. Stocky bi closeted male looking for other bi partners. Looking for long term relationships (just sex or hanging out outside the bedroom). I don't like pushy and I don't like people who don't know when they were tested last or don't think it's a big deal to not know their STD status.

My Ideal Person For all, be honest. We're all basically here for one thing. So just be real. It's probably the first time you get to be honest about this kind of stuff and being encouraged to do so without being judged. This is for fun and lying about it when you don't have to doesn't seem fun. Know your std status and when you were tested last. I'm not doing any risky behavior with someone I don't know or someone who I don't trust. I will not meet anyone who isn't vaccinated, period. No, I don't care about your politics. This is about health and my safety. Be freshly showered. I can't believe I have to say that but seriously, if we are meeting up to have fun, take a shower/bath and use soap.

I have lots of kinks and fantasies so I'm an open book to share. Things I draw the line at, gross things (scat, vomit, etc.) or anything illegal. I shouldn't have to explain illegal. If you need to question whether it's legal or not, more than likely it's not legal and you can move on from me.

For men, I prefer stocky, chubby and shaved/trimmed cocks. All may apply but just know that I'm chubby and you need to be ok with that. I lean more towards being a bottom but I've also had roles in dom and topped plenty of times. I don't care about your cock size. I just care that it's showered fresh, properly groomed and that you can get hard and stay hard. Outside of that, I've always wanted to know what it was like to play with something 8 inches or more.

For women, I like a confident woman who knows what she wants and isn't afraid to ask for it. If you're into bi guys, you go to the front of the line. Straight is fun too of course but a bi woman who like bi men is my unicorn. I don't care about your size or age. Just be clean and of legal age. Open to most kinds of fun and non-judgemental.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
In a bi foursome. Lots of sensual touching. Lots of oral.
Sharing cock, pussy and cum

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Role Playing, Threesomes, Cross Dressing, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Leather, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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