My marriage has lost that "loving feeling", has yours? I am a Married man who lives in a sexless & non-intimate marriage, looking for a female for afternoon encounters. I prefer to find one woman who i can discreetly adore and share stories, laughter, flirting, & friendship. Seeking a special friend outside of my marriage is an area where I am not experienced with, So I have no expectations. No strings, no pressure. Just taking one step at a time and seeing who is out there. We can start things slow with just email exchanges to see if we have anything in common. If we both feel comfortable, then we can meet for coffee or a drink to see if we get along in per. Maybe we could meet during our lunches. What do you say? \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\********* What can you offer her? A bit about me: I am Caucasian, tall and a gentleman. I believe in respecting women in an old fashion sense: opening doors, holding your bags, helping her put on her coat, and asking her if i may be honored to buy her a drink. Romantically, i believe in pleasing women first. I pay attention to your needs and wants and enjoy giving you the things you desire. Now I am no sugar daddy, so I am not talking about material goods. I am speaking about your mental, sensual, romantic and if our friendship develops into something more, then your sexual needs. I do not know if I am the right match for you, but what i can promise is I will always be honest and open with you. I hope you give me a chance.

My Ideal Person These darn check boxes! Just doesn't translate how I think. I hope
We both have a sense of humor and can carry on a conversation. Wit, charm and intelligence are traits we both appreciate. Some chemistry is of course essential. Are you with me so far?
Interested in an ongoing discreet arrangement that's uncomplicated, satisfying and fun for both of us....or why do it?
We each benefit from the other. No tricks or gimmicks. Safe, sane, private and discreet.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I know its rather tame but to be woken up from a sleep getting
a bj and once i'm hard and not fully awake to have her
climb on top and ride me.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), An airplane, A movie theatre, The stands at a sporting event, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, A little of each, ROmance/ Kissing

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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