I am a widow, who is looking for a Friend or a Friend with Benefits. I

My Ideal Person My ideal person is so confidant and so comfortable with herself that everyone sees her as beautiful, even though a camera might show her to be somewhat plain. And that's OK. Intelligence and inner beauty of spirit will always shine through and I will respond in kind.

There are two contradictory notions of attraction. The old folk saying that states "bird of a feather flock together". And the more scientific view that states "opposites attract."

So I'm looking for a woman who is enough like me so we are instantly comfortable with each other, but also enough different as her own woman to be interesting and fascinating. Just sayin'.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Tommy Emmanuel

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, A swimming pool or hot tub, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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