***Update*** Not interested in married men, men can't tell the difference between passion and sex, men with a short sight on future endeavors, and desperate men************** I'm a woman who is looking to express her inner most desires with a sensual man who is not afraid of being truly intimate. I am a sexy, voluptuous black woman with a high sex drive who has yet to meet her match. I am a woman that loves to be spoiled (but what woman doesnt')and her every whim indulged. I am a woman that loves a down to earth, funny, laid back man. I am a sensual woman that loves to enjoy hours of foreplay with edible lotions, whipped cream, silk blind folds, incense and baby making music. I am a woman that is ever changing in her sexual needs. For instance, how about a sexually charged woman at you door wearing but a coat, bra and panties ready to fill your night with hours of passion? Or maybe a Saturday evening filled with movie rental, chinese food and sweet and sour sauce being licked off of you and waking up the next day next to each other wondering what the ending of the last movie was? On those given nights I might want it hard and fast, nice and slow or slow and hard. But whatever it will be, you can be assured you'll them into your archives of the best love making ever. I LOVE to watch a man have an orgasm it is the most sensual thing to me... I like confidence; a take charge man who isn't afraid to tell me he wants to "fuck me right now" across the dinner table in a five star restuarant. Then pay the check and make hot passionate sex in the back seat of his car. A man with a firm hand and a hard dick is so hard to find. I like spontanity, don't be afraid I might not say "no". I like a man that can be giving it every way possible and still maintain his sense of male dignity.|-(d

My Ideal Person An educated, honest, secure man. A person that puts effort in their appearence. This means that "a little extra padding" does not mean sloppy. Those who are comfortable in Kenneth Cole or a regular pair of jean, but have the sense to know when to where them. A man with class, but not trying to impress with the "who's who's in Hollywood" type of attitude. I am looking for a real "friend" with benefits in every sense of the word. I am not looking for "a wham bam thank you mamm", but someone who is decent and has integrity to share my body with. I have respect for myself and so should you. I am looking for someone who is also open to the "possibilities" of a LTR, but is not neccessary if the friendship works in both favors. The person I am with will be someone I can explore my sexuality with into other areas . I know this is the AdultFriendFinder, but I am not looking to spread my sweetness to any and everyone on the website, because not everyone deserves it. With the right person a lot can happen are you the one....?

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
LL Cool J, All the oldies, 70's,

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Blindfolds, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Food Play, Giving Oral Sex, Latex, Leather, Mutual Masturbation, Receiving Oral Sex, Role Playing, Slave/Master, Spanking, Threesomes, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Voyeurism

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
A little of each, Creativity/Kinkiness level, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Physical attraction, Sexual appetite, Sexual experience, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
The thing i have to say is this..LL Cool J. If you don't understand then you're not my type any way.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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