Can someone (guys or girls) send me a message just so i know that this site is actually working. I've sent out 100+ messages and had almost zero response. Please, no lectures on how to message women etc etc, I just need to know if this crap is working because I'm getting tired of spending time on it. Thanks I've been overseas working for several years and I'm now back in Manchester. I missed the food, the family, understanding what people are saying, but not the weather lol. I looooooooovvvvveeeee beaches and hot weather. I work in the IT industry. Im into women who are care a lot about their careers or have some focus / direction in their lives. It's what I'm like. I love my career, I love focussing on business, and I love to succeed and make money. I'm not into women who just want to sit and watch TV shows all day. I almost never watch TV. Must be friendly, of course, and have a good sense of humor. If a girl can make me laugh then its a huge thumbs up!! Im not here just to have coffees with people, I'm here to find a good friend to have fun with and who wants to have sex. So if you're unsure of this site or just want free cocktails, trips, and attention without any effort on your side, then please move on. By the way ladies, please don't bother replying or messaging me if you don't intend to respond to any follow up messages. Get in touch if you want to know more.

My Ideal Person - Good sense of humor.
- Can talk easily, its exhausting when I do all the talking.
- IS NOT BORING. I can sleep just fine without being bored to sleep.
- Focuses on her career, or has some passion in her life. That doesn't include watching TV or travel. Travel is great, I love it too, but its not a dedicated passion i think.
- Intelligent, and can keep me on my toes when debating subjects.
- Dresses good. Doesn't need to be high fashion brands, but just needs to care about how they look. Im not really into scruffy women that much.
- Has a cute / submissive side.
- Is open sexually and can talk about sex without freaking out. Please no prudes, don't bother getting in touch because it will waste both our time.

These are just some general points. It's hard to say exactly what I like and don't like because everyone is different. Some things I might not like in a woman, but other things I will, and the friendship works despite the things I don't like.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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