I'm 62 years old, have two grown who live on their own, and have been living in Anchorage for fifteen years. I'm polyamorous and have a wonderful Anchorage girlfriend and two, long-distance girlfriends. I host about half of the polyamory social meet ups in town, usually potluck & discussion evenings, sometimes with a thematic movie, sometimes a thematic movie at Bear Tooth Theatre Pub. I am looking for an additional partners who I can be genuine friends with AND a fun sexual partner with. I would love to have a great female friend who I could meet once or twice or thrice a week for mutually satisfying fun. I'm more kinky than most, I dare say. I'm involved in the local bdsm/kink community; I'm a Dom. I have a broad spectrum of sexual turn-ons and I enjoy both giving and receiving pleasure. I wouldn't expect that a friend with benefits -- or indeed any one partner -- would need to share all of my erotic interests with me, but I'd hope we'd match up in several of them: more to talk about later! For now, let me say that my brain, my hands, and my tongue are sexual organs along with my penis, and that I like playing with toys. My IQ is 172 and I know how to use it. I enjoy outdoor hiking, the beach, dinner parties, movies and fun conversation. My erotic interests include French and Greek arts, D/s, and Japanese rope bondage.

My Ideal Person Seeking genuine friendship with creatively delicious benefits for now; potential poly relationship. Must have a kinky mind and a high sex drive. Must be intelligent. Ideally, interested in riding motorcycles, going out to dinner, the movies, theater, museums, dancing, cuddling on the couch, hiking, camping, and more. Unshaven woman is a definite plus. If you're also a submissive and somewhat of a masochist, we have to talk.

Looking for exciting times with a woman who has a wild, sensuous, uninhibited imagination.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A remote wilderness spot

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Fisting, Massage, D/s, enemas

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level, honesty, her enthusiasm, intelligence & sparkle!

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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