I am looking for a lover and friend for a discrete and/or possible long term relationship who can be an orally stimulating and erotically charged partner in crime. I am flexible here because it all depends on the right per. Is that you?I believe chemistry to be very important so we must be able to mutually generate an explosive connection with dynamite chemistry with each other to make it work. Perhaps that is a lot to ask, but without chemistry it?s just sex, and let?s face it, you can get that anywhere. After all, isn?t it better to always look forward to the next time you?re with that special per who arouses you in only the way they can? I am a college educated professional who likes to read, garden, fish, go to the movies, bike ride and generally be out of doors. My passion is reading murder mysteries (any well written book for that matter).:) Right now I am a big fan of Hamilton and Mozart in the Jungle.

My Ideal Person I am looking for a woman around my age who is caring, affectionate, passionate, tender and sensual. Someone who is a down to earth person who wants to receive and give little "TLC" from someone who will do everything he can to satisfy her needs. The ideal match would be a woman of similar age, circumstances and needs as mine. Must be willing to get acquainted over coffee, drinks or lunch. If we can't enjoy that kind of time together, how can we expect anything more intmate to be better?

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Mutual Masturbation, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

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