Hiya! =) John and I are we're looking to meet other like minded couples/singles (men or women) who are around our age and share our interests. We're relatively experienced for our age, but don't let that fool you, as we are picky about who we'll actually have "dessert" with, though we're happy to have dinner and make new friends with just about anyone in the lifestyle. We're sexually open and always looking to push our limits and try new things. Our goal in joining AFF was to meet some other attractive and educated people and make some new friends. Possibly have a little fun too! ;) Feel welcome to message us! we don't bite... no wait, nevermind, we do...but we'll reply though!

My Ideal Person Both of us are physically fit, attractive facially, and intelligent educated people. We're mature for our age (so those of you older swingers who would think us "drama" don't worry, we can handle it).

We are a full swing couple, though we never ever play alone, and we only play with couples to whom we are both attracted to both members. While that may seem silly to some, its what we prefer. Sorry. We're always glad to make new friends however, and we're happy to get to know and hang with couples that we may not be sexually attracted to. This means that John doesn't subject me to the "baggage husband" and I wont force john onto the "baggage wife" we also aren't really big on just "girl/girl" play, though we have engaged in that from time to time. The reason being is that we again only swing with couples to whom we find both members attractive, and why wouldn't we have all the fun we can have while we're at it?

She: I am totally bi and sexually adventurous. Looking to expand my horizons and discover all my fetishes. Tall, skinny, high cheekbones and very pretty and outgoing!

Him: He's never done bi, but I'm really hoping to see this happen, its a fantasy of mine, haha! Anyways, even if he's too straight to oblige me, I still love him =)
He's still quite handsome, tall, muscular, and blonde/blue =) A very nordic looking man.

While we are rather fluid and open with our sexuality, we are open to meeting couples/singles of all different sexualities and fetishes, and respect the boundaries of yours. This means that we won't discriminate against you for being into one thing or another even if it doesn't line up with us perfectly. That doesn't mean we will change for you, but you don't have to change who you are for us. Our SLS certifications are rather good evidence of this fact.

Our fantasies and/or real experiences:
I would consider us reasonably experienced. We've had most of the experiences on our "fantasy list" completed. We're relatively inexperienced however in the ways of the "swing club" and we hope to get back to the BKC on a popular weekend again soon.
What else we'd like to say, do, see, hear about and/or learn:
To answer a few questions and deal with some issues that have come up:

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1. Yes we have some experience, but we are no masters! We're young, and looking to learn. That doesn't mean we need you to teach us! We'll ask if we get confused

2. No, we arent interested in "outcall" or any sort of payment service. We're not whores, we're a nice couple with a wild side, please respect us. Disrespectful messages will get no reply.

3. Messaging us asking for pictures is fine, but please be willing to offer some yourselves. If you message us and we cannot see you, you will likely be ignored. (and where we have more pics posted). Again though, quid pro quo, please don't expect us to send you all our pics when you can't even offer us some personal details about you as a person. We do have our special pictures locked for a reason, and we won't meet any couple before seeing face pics/speaking to you on the phone. Sorry, we're as real as they come, and we aren't sticking our necks out for pretenders and lookie-loos!

4. If you are married and "your wife isnt into it", we're not into you. We think swinging and open relationships should be done with honesty and the informed consent of all parties involved, we're not going to help you "fulfill a fantasy" or cheat on your wife/husband. If you're a single person, thats fine, just be honest with us, its all we ask.

5. We do not discriminate based on age. We would be interested in meeting an older couple, but we do discriminate based upon our attraction to you. My dad is 50, thus if I look at you and think you look like my dad's friend, it likely isnt going to work out. Not everyone who is 50 looks 50 however, and thus as a young and fit couple, we simply ask that if you aren't in our age bracket, we find you attractive. Aggressive mean messages from people out of our age bracket that we simply aren't attracted to will be ignored. We are trying to reply to everyone, even if we're not interested. If you're both 40, and both of you are attractive to us, your age is irrelevant.

6. Lastly, i'm a lady, and I expect to not be spoken to with disrespect. We ask if you message us that you show us your best side. If we click, there is plenty of room for dirty talk later =) While I do most of our SLS-ing, john has the password of course and is on the site sometimes, so don't say anything to me that you wouldn't say in front of him. We respect the couples we swing with both in discretion and in demeanor.

Oh, and thank you to all the very friendly and kind couples and singles who have given us advice and such a warm welcome! We appreciate it!

Oh, and if you're looking for us on other sites, you can find us at swing life style as well!

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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