I am a gentleman with a quiet devilish side. I do my best to be thoughtful, respectful and considerate. While I'm not eye candy I think I'm reasonably handsome. And I do have a devilish smile. I'm uninhibited and comfortable in my skin. I'm insatiably curious (sexually and otherwise) - I take great pleasure in learning about my partners. I'm an educated professional in tech, with retirement on the horizon. I'm passionate about travel - I've been to ~50 countries and plan to go to many more. I read constantly, particularly history. I'm a life-long person who's developed a deep appreciation for cats. I love San Francisco and have spent my entire life near SF. Fantasies are usually a result of chemistry and what two (or more) people are into together. That said... I am a bit of a voyeur and exhibitionist and like (safely) incorporating that into play.

My Ideal Person I'm looking for light-hearted, fun partners who truly think of what we do as "play."

I'm attracted to and interested in a wide range of people. Curiosity, intelligence and playfulness are important. Body type and ethnicity are not.

I have a preference for ongoing, but occasional or one-time play is ok if that's what our schedules allow. Friendship is ideal but I'm not a "must be friends first" person - friendships take time to develop and I'm comfortable playing along the way.

I enjoy combining sex and kink, though I'm also happy to do one or the other. If you're curious about exploring, perhaps we should talk. I love helping people explore this side of themselves, including women whose partners who are not into kink or D/s.

I'm open to single, solo or couples playmates. When playing with couples I know that I am a guest and behave accordingly.

First meetings are usually over coffee or drinks to see if there's mutual spark and interest. I will play on a first meeting if the chemistry is right. Phone conversations or meetings at parties / events are also good options.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I'm a bit of a voyeur / exhibitionist so / party
play is fun. I'm curious about sex in places where we
might get caught.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Nope. Ok, maybe Shakira. :-)

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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