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frankieshmankie 61 / M
"married looking 4 FWB - "fone fun"?chat?email?intro meets?lunch/dinner dates?motel/hotel dates? :))"
Lancaster, California, United States
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Member Since: May 5, 2008

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frankieshmankie 61/M
Lancaster, California
If I don't reply to IM, it's probably cuz AFF always shows me on IM, but I'm out of my 3-chats-per-day til midnite. Pls just try another day
u tell me what you're cool with -- aff name gee male. Plus, I'll give out my Google Chat by IM (or by reply to your inbox message if I can read it and reply to i -- -see below) since Standard Members can't really communicate at all anymore, except for just 3 total IM chats per day [U]even including replies to Paid Members' invites[/U] (see below). Plus, email is really a better way to exchange full profiles and pics and stuff, anyway. Face pics available on request. More pics and real-time pics available to "return shoppers" with trade. :)) *************************************************************** I DON'T IGNORE ANYONE OR "HANG-UP" IM's WITHOUT SAYING GOODBYE OR EXCUSING MYSELF. SO PLEEZE...[U] just get my email or Hangouts from me on IM[/U], and at least just ask me first before getting mad and assuming that I just ignored your Friend Requests, Flirts, Hotlists, IM's, or "hung up" on you in a chat. #:D# *************************************************************** [U]PLEASE UNDERSTAND ABOUT AFF RESTRICTIONS ON MALE STANDARD MEMBERS[/U] - male Standards can't view profiles except for the short "hover" info. If you want us to read your profile, you need to message or email it to us (I email mine all the time) - male Standards [U]can't Flirt or return a Flirt anymore[/U] (can't use Flirt button, not even in IM). I just have to hope to catch a girl in IM and tell her "FLIRT!" (so lame) - male Standards [U]can't always Hotlist or return a Hotlist anymore[/U] (sometimes only works in IM, or not at all). - male Standards can only Friend in IM - male Standards [U]can't view inbox messages or pics, or reply to them[/U], unless the Paid Member has the extral Standard Contacts feature (it appears that very few members do). The entire inbox message is blurred out, except just the first few words (a teaser), and pics are blurred out. Even if the message text is de-blurred with software, the text has just been replaced anyway with nonsense Latin words a (FYI, called a "Lorem ipsum"). - male Standards [U]only get 3 TOTAL chats per day now, including even replies to PAID Members[/U] (renewed every midnite with no "roll over" of unused chats). So even replies to PAID Members' Chat Invites are deducted from the 3 chats, and Standards can't reply to even PAID Members if the Standard's 3 chats are already used up for that day :(( So if I don't return a Flirt or a Hotlist, or don't reply to a message or IM -- IT'S SIMPLY BECAUSE I JUST PLAIN CAN'T -- at least not until after midnite the next day if I'm already out of my '3-chats-per-day', and only if I can catch the girl on IM. :(( *************************************************************** ABOUT ME Hi, I’m Frank (Frankie) :) I apologize that this is so long. Women mostly complain that guys don't write enough... [U]so be careful what you ask for[/U]. (bite me! :D ) I’m a self-emp computer service, 57 (when did that happen?) 5’10”, 250, but well-built & handsome face (so I’m told) wavy brown hair (a little thinning and salt and pepper now) blue eyes. Really nice hands and nice lips (so I’m told a lot). Very well-educated, very well-behaved, and very conversational (fun sex talker, or I’ll just shut-up if you tell me to—I can follow instructions :)) ). Since I’m a self-emp computer service, my time is pretty available and flexible (maybe not quite “booty call”, but almost, during the day ;) ). I suppose I might be just a little on the “metrosexual” side (my wife teases me that I’m in the bathroom like a GIRL!). I’m very fussy about my head-to-toe grooming. And not only do I have really nice-looking clean, soft hands with short, smooth nails, but I also have excellent dexterity/coordination and delicate touch. Bragging a little? You bet I am. B) I’m VERY oral—maybe to a fault, if that’s possible. I just really like kissing, licking and sucking anything and everything for as long as a girl will let me. I really do. Seriously. Head to toe. (Is that so wrong?) Now, I know what your thinking, “If I had a dime for every time I’ve heard that...” :)) . But I’m fully prepared “to put my mouth where my mouth is” (get it? :? ). Just put something in front of my mouth and set a timer for however long you want. I don’t believe you’ll be disappointed. Just FYI... I’ve actually been doing a very nice trim-and-shave, shampoo/conditioner manscaping since my senior year in high school. It started simply because I’m a little on the hairy side, and sometimes things were getting outta hand, and manscaped is WAY more comfortable, anyway. Plus, I was pretty much sexually raised by (much) older women (girls my own age just didn’t understAAAAAAAAAAAAAAnd me! :-S ) And let’s face it, older women can be pretty demanding—and I haven’t exactly gotten any complaints. :} OUR MARRIAGE Even though my wife and I still play every once in a while, we’ve been together almost 30 years. (So we’re not getting any younger here, ya know? :-w) We’re realizing that we’ve tried just about everything, and it’s just plain getting harder to get very excited with each other these days. We know other couples our age experience the same thing. It’s really just a normal development of being with the same per for so long. Again, since we’re not getting any younger, we’re realizing more and more that sexual health, activity and excitement is important. It’s good for morale (gets you up in the morning =D% ). So we both admitted years ago we’re interested in a little NSA/FWB fun (even if just long-distance phone/cyber, but in-per preferred). So, years ago wifey and I agreed on “don’t ask, don’t tell”. We noticed that we both still got flirted with, and even hit on, and we both still wanna have fun—we’d just rather not know about it, and absolutely trust each other to be careful and discreet. I know my wife has a couple profiles out there now and if she meets anybody—cool. (You go girl!) I want her to be happy and have fun while we’ve both still “got it” B) . I’d just rather not know about it, that’s all %-( . Simple as that. And we also realize we’d be uncomfortable together with a “third wheel” or swinging/swapping. That’s just not for us. :">

My Ideal Person I’m primarily looking for other mature marrieds, such that I can trust their discretion as much as they have to trust mine. Reliable discretion, civility, respectfulness and responsible behavior are foremost, whether you’re a mature married or not.

As far as what kind of women I like to play with—more than anything I really just like a nice and/or exotic/unusual face or nice eyes or smile, and good grooming/hygiene.

Otherwise, I truly love all ages, sizes, shapes, races, cultures and personalities (even a little angry is OK). I just plain love all kinds of ordinary, everyday girls. Throughout my life I’ve been lucky enough to have a wide variety of FWB’s/girlfriends—white, black, hispanic, Lebanese, Korean, Greek, Swedish, French, German, BBW/SSBBW, even blind and deaf, and they were all fAAAAAAAAAAAAAAbulous and I miss them.

I guess I just really love all the differences between women. Tall, short, skinny, chubby/BBW/SSBBW,stretch marks, cellulite, etc. From flat-chested to huge/saggy-chested and everything in-between (although I do prefer natural boobs). Tiny clits and/or delicate lips to huge penile clits and/or thick dangling lips. No tattoos to full body tattoos. No make-up to heavy make-up. Casual or dressy. No piercings to extreme piercings. Completely pale to extreme freckles, or dark tans with sharp tan lines (so I’m reminded that I’m getting to see what she normally keeps hidden). I like glasses, and braces (makes for very exciting and maybe a little dangerous kissing and oral).

I guess about the only things that don’t do much for me are young, cookie-cutter, perfect-looking, skinny covergirl model types (but plus-size model types—YAY!) or fake tans or unnaturally fake boobs. Sorry, just not really a fan of fake boobs that are too hard or tight. If a girl’s gonna have big boobs, I wanna see them bounce nice, or hanging down really nice and long and swinging around and slapping together pretty when she’s on her knees -- sorry, so sue me. But to be clear, I don’t mind misshapen fake boobs, as long as they dangle, swing and slap nice. And I actually even like asymmetric boobs (too weird? oh well… bite me again! LO

Of course, I do love a nicely shaved/waxed pussy. But also, granted, as a guy who enjoys variety, I also really like brushing my face in a nice, soft, wet bush. And who are we kidding here, anyway? Even if a girl has a huge bush—if she wants me to lick and suck the cream out of her fur, I’m gonna do it and love it (LOVE feeling a girl’s soft wet fur slipping through my lips and tongue.)

I’m never disrespectful or ungrateful, and my dad didn’t raise a stOOpid boy. If a lady will play with me naked, I’m gonna be very nice to her and do whatever she wants. I was raised: “Ladies First”, “Lady’s Choice”, and “Lady’s Rules”.

Also, drinking and 'smoking' cool, but not required. Otherwise, D&D free, of course. And I need cigarettes to be outdoors. (But if you enjoy a long, slow outdoor clitty-suck with your smoke, well then... WIN-WIN!)

So, have I pretty much covered it? I love girls. All kinds of girls. Plus... did I mention... I really, love girls. Especially naked girls. I really, really do. Really. (enough “really”s?)

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
gonna have to give this some thought (get it?)

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
check-boxes aren't saving multiple checks :(, but about half the choices

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
check-boxes aren't saving multiple checks :(

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Actually. I prefer fantasizing about women I know (since
there's always that possibility...right place,
right time...maybe a friendly hug lingers a little bit

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've done it so many times that I've forgotten how to type with two hands.

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  • 61 / male
  • Lancaster, California, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Looking For:  Women or Couples (2 women)
Birthdate: March 1, 1961
Hometown: Pasadena, California
Relocate?: No
Marital Status: Married
Height: 5 ft 10 in / 177-180 cm
Body Type: A little extra padding
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I don't use drugs
Education: Associate degree (2 years college)
Occupation: self employed
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Not applicable
Have Children: No
Want Children: No
Male Endowment: Average/Thick
Circumcised: Yes
Speaks: English
Hair Color: Brown
Hair Length: Short
Eye Color: Blue
Glasses or Contacts: Glasses