No longer a gold member so unfortunately I cannot read emails, limited to IMs to 3 per day and also unable to read profiles. Firstly, I the female is mainly on the site, do not assume when you message that it is he. If you start off being crass in your opening line you will be blocked. I do not find it a turn on more of a turn off. Won't do anyone under 39 so please don't try to convince me on how good you are. Also BBC is not my cup of tea, I do not find it a turn on so please honour our boundaries. Also if we have never chatted we will not accept friend requests you will be declined. We are not HWP so if that is your focus move on, as you can see we are happy and confident with what we have. He's the teddy bear gentle giant, she is the adventurous one. Married for over 30ys s extremely stable on our relationship. He works out of town for extended periods of time so let's me friend/play with coup!es. Likes attending house parties and social gatherings and clubs. Laugher is the best medicine and life is too short for pettiness. We like to travel so when he is on R&;R we like to get it on :) so if you are able to join us!!! WARNING any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies, projects or peral use - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this. Are you the right couple for us? Let's get to know each other, have dinner, a couple of drinks...and see where the night takes us!:D

My Ideal Person Someone that can hold a conversation and have a sense of humour....laughter is the best medicine. Variety is the spice of life but we like to stay in our own race...just our preference. Putting it clearly NO BBC, NOT INTERESTED if you flirt/hotlist or IM you will be blocked. It also shows you dont read the profile and therefore dont follow our boundaries. Minimum age 39 as anything younger than our own kids will just feel weird. When hubby is away I like to enjoy lifestyle parties but also like to have company to attend parties but has to be someone I am comfortable with so if you can't play weekends move on.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Threesomes, Voyeurism, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
Unsure/Prefer not to say

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