Update: Back in December 2022 I receive a double lung transplant and it has been great. I've lost about 60 lbs before and after the surgery and now down to a healthy 160 lbs. After 37 years of being married to the most beautiful and loving woman ever, I lost her after a hard battle with cancer back in 2019. Over the years I have broaden my list of fetishes and kinks that I enjoy as well as adding others that I want to try while I am still young enough. It seems that I am in a point in my life in that I don' want to look back 10 years or so from now and say I wished I tried this or done that. I do not plan on growing old gracefully. I'm looking for play partners but it would be great to also be friends and have fun outside of the bedroom. I love laughing and not taking things too serious I am a smart ass at times but I can take it as well as dish it out. I like going out to dinner or maybe a movie. Also a drive to nowhere in particularly or a maybe an adventure to somewhere special. I had to sell my bike since I wasn't able to ride it for two years. So I bought a Polaris Slingshot which is just as much fun plus my grandson thought it was cool and looked like a batmobile.. Just setting on the patio relaxing and having a drink is also nice. Every now and then I enjoyed going to lifestyle parties and events and have meet a lot of nice people at them. The only current pictures I have is the one with me in the Sling Shot since my and some friends told me I looked like shit before the transplant. The picture of me carving a pumpkin is before the transplant. I should have some current pictures soon.

My Ideal Person Idealy I would like to fimd a mature lady that is a little on the kinky side. but also enjoys having fun outside of the bedrooom and ocasionaly go to a lifestyle party.As for single woman someone I can take out to dinner or get togethers with my straight friends and family if a LTR develops. I would also enjoy meeting with couples for,threesomes. I would not play with another women in a commited relationships wtthout her paetner knowing.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Fisting

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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