Totally retired 2016, after 37 years Gov’t service. Returned to NC from Washington, DC to care for my Mom - now terminally Ill. Live next door to her with someone in a relationship of convenience - strictly survival. Cannot Host. Well-traveled/very well-read Southern Gentleman. Love womankind and am considered a compassionate and passionate lover. Quick witted, love conversation, humor and to laugh. I can be serious one moment and then completely goofy in the next moment. Very caring, protective and attentive. NOT into Domination (either party), BDSM, threesomes/group sex. Shy of situations that another man is involved ie: marriage, boyfriends. I don't want to be a crime statistic or end up in a hospital.

My Ideal Person My ideal woman is someone who stimulates my libido and my intelligence equally. Passion, love of life, adventurous, intelligent, sense of humor (loves to laugh), an independent minded woman that can at times surrender herself to the right man. Selfless and purpose driven (Your purpose can be to have fun). I have difficulty running my own life sometimes so I don't want to run my partners. Last but not least; she has the bumps and grinds of life and has overcome.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Pink Floyd, ZZTop, Anna Popovic, Samantha Fish

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Kissing, FOREPLAY!!!!!!!!!!

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
No, not really. You can never know if you've reached
the "real person".

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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