My wife and I have entered the phase of open non-monogamous marriage. She has her new lover, and I am now searching for mine. I am intelligent, I am not the best, but definitely not the worst when it comes to appearance. I am honest, I am kind, I am funny, but most of all, I am a good person. I am looking for a woman who may be in a similar situation to mine. My marriage will remain in tact, but the open ability to date other women who are looking to explore others outside of our marriages without the pressure of anything more than enjoying each others company and enjoying each other sexually. I have my commitments to my family and work and all of the things that come along with them, and you should have similar priorities.

My Ideal Person I'd like to be lucky enough to find a friend with benefits to get together with once or twice a month, to pass some flirty texts back and forth with, and to just be excited to anticipate our next encounter. I would prefer either a single woman who just wants to enjoy each others company or a woman who is in an open marriage, as for I do not want to have any jealous husbands chasing me. This is about fun, not drama. I know everything that my wife is doing, and she will know everything that I am doing. My preference is for smaller to average sized woman, perhaps with a little extra padding, but I am not looking for any BBW's. Sorry, just my preference. As with you, you must like what you see and so must I. Intelligence is a must, and that does not just mean you need a college degree. There is a difference. I will privately send you a picture if you contact me, due to my career I don't want my photo posted for all to see. If you do email, please send a full body shot photo of you that you would have taken with your family around so I can get a sense of what your full appearance is, and I will send you the same.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Latex, Fisting, Massage, Receiving a strap on from a woman.

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, Someone who I can mentally connect with.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
Not yet, but I definitely want to try it.

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