Putting into words what our situation is would sound almost unbelievable, but we promise this is the truth…so here you go. I’m married. She is not. Now before you get the wrong idea, continue to read. Haha. I’m curious about the lifestyle. I believe that my wife is also. It’s come up in conversations…when we’re alone, and also at get togethers at neighbors homes (I’m almost positive some of our closest neighbors swing, but they haven’t come out and said it because they can feel that we wouldn’t know how to react). So…a dear friend of mine (who happens to be an ex girlfriend from years and years ago) considers herself a “unicorn” (her words not mine). So, she told me that she’s been to some parties, but would like to be accompanied by someone who cares about her, and who she trust. So that’s where I come in. My wife isn’t near as comfortable with the thought of attending something like a party in the lifestyle. I’m very curious, and would like to see if it’s something that we would enjoy. Which brings us hear. My girlfriend, is more than willing to be the person who “introduces” us to the lifestyle, since she kinda knows the ropes. Hopefully I learn something that I don’t know about my marriage. Maybe my wife will decide to join us at some events. Until she’s comfortable being in public, if you run into me, it will be with my girlfriend “the unicorn”. My girlfriend may very well play in front of me. But I have no plans on being involved…my roll is more less “taking in” the environment, watching her do whatever she wants to do, and maybe sometime very soon bringing the wife along. We are very real. We also have “very real” families and professions which are semi public. So our discression is important. We’re super excited about going to parties, meeting new people, and just having good conversations with people who aren’t complete jerks or psychos. Maybe you’re just the friends we’re looking for.

My Ideal Person I’m straight…not even remotely into another dude so please don’t contact us about anything where you’d want your guy playing with another guy.
She’s EXTREMELY bisexual. Preference in women? Not really sure if I’d say we have a “preference”. Heavier set women are ok. She’d prefer white women, but keeps an open mind if she finds you attractive. Not into butch women.
Not into talking to single guys right now. Preferably single women, but cool couples are ok too.
Our schedules are hard to get in order…we both have children and obligations…so, no we aren’t flakes, but it is hard to commit to get togethers. Which is why parties or large gatherings are our preferred thing starting out. We don’t want to disappoint any couple that cleared their schedule for us, then have us cancel because of a scheduling conflict.
Welll that was a lot of info. Hope it helps you guys & gals out. Til we meet…