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"Are you ready to be a MAN in all respects? That's what I am seeking and nothing else will do.."
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ilovecockalot 51/T
DC, District of Columbia
i want the kind of affair that could go any where - sparks, chemistry and impulse- fulfillment
First I have to say that I am truly offended by people who waste my time because they are only interested in their own self-gratification. [B] When one thinks about that, its a pretty repulsive statement about the way our society is "evolving" with increased internet dating.[/B] Not all men are created equally. There is a vast array of styles, sensibilities, emotional responses and other things. I am solely interested in masculine men who a) already are experienced with relationships with sissies, cross dressers, transgender and gender-assigned males that are feminine, romantic and extremely capable of satisfying their needs. b) prefer to [B]exclusively[/I][/B][/U] date tv/cds. c) are not interested in wearing the types of lacy silky lingerie and dresses that I wear (more plainly, they must want to "wear the pants" all the time in a relationship with a cd/tv.) [I]Please[/I] don't start a conversation with me that is insincere - keep your motives and agenda clear within yourself and communicate them - we'll be fine - I'll never be the kind of slut that some on this site display themselves as but I'm no prude and often do things spontaneously for the fun of it. On the rare occasions that I meet a guy for a quickie then generally the more anonymous the better - book stores, adult theatres and glory holes can be a turn on; My ideal situation is a relationship, either committed or not that is based on trust, truth and fun with each other or possibly together with another masculine man or more than one. When on cam, I like to view/ be viewed with local masculine men - I've met several hot sex partners that way - usually I'm not in to just watching a guy jerk off - there's too much real fun to be had in per and that has become irritating because my web cam experiences have usually been that he has an orgasm and I don't. where's the fun in that for me? of course, there are exceptions but mostly I expect men to act like men and that means if you are chatting with me and it goes there, one hint at you suddenly having an urgent matter to attend to and your BLOCKED. I'm kind of sorry to have to write the above but really, most people who've been on sites like this one know what I'm writing about here. Ultimately, I want to find a relationship with a man who matches my fantasies and desires in intensity and in a way that is mutually fulfilling...I'm pretty relaxed, and certainly open minded with definite ideas about what I want and need. I have a remarkably developed soft, nurturing style as a lover and love those men who enjoy leading in bed but have the flexibility to let me express my affection in a loving, sexually provocative way. [COLOR red][U][B]IMPORTA[/U]NT:[/B] [/COLOR] If you are a guy that wants to be fucked, keep looking - I enjoy that role for myself and it spoils it for me if my partner wants to change roles with me - thats not a put down to those who like that - its simply an honest statement about me. I do enjoy sucking a man's cock, love to be eaten out, kissed, held, love to breast feed and yes I do enjoy being sucked - for me its a feminine response to a man's expression of desire and perhaps love. I'm attracted to intelligence, sensitivity, sincerity, physical appearance comes fourth. If you're just online to while away the hours jerking off, please, I'm, hello - [COLOR orange][/COLOR]NOT INTERESTED - I would find you boring, among other things. In this day and age with what we know about science and hormones and genes, chromosomes etc., its hardly surprising that there is such a large population of healthy transgendered individuals; the degree to which each of us change our physical appearance is peral. I am happy with my current appearance but may decide otherwise later on. [COLOR seagreen][B][B][U]Smart [/I]Tip[/U][/B]: I don't use the word "freak" to describe myself- if you use it when referring to me (some men think girls are turned on by this or something) you'd better duck and then beat it out of Dodge... I may have feminine appeal and curves but believe me, I'm fit and healthy. Unless you want to be thought of as an immature jerk who is emotionally stunted, crude, and/or stupid then don't behave in any of those manners with me. I don't find that business appealing in even the remotest way..[/COLOR][/B] Never have I felt that my sexuality made me in any way "less than" anyone else - my self acceptance came early in my life and has never been challenged successfully by any of society's ideologies about the topic. I am definitely not looking to "convert" anyone to any way of life that isn't their own style. Labels don't always work - that's my little speech and I'm sticking to it. Just remember, if you treat me like a male fuck buddy, I will definitely not respond well or be turned on. NO ONE HAS THE RIGHT TO USE ANY INFORMATION PERTAINING TO ME ON THIS SITE OR ELSEWHERE, EVER - END OF STORY.

My Ideal Person A romantic, masculine man with whom to explore mutual gender role play; a guy who feels for me like the girl I have always been at heart. Age/Race unimportant - prefer non-smokers and over 45 is a plus...

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I want to go on a cross or part-country
run with a trucker in his rigg and fulfill his desires in
or out of the cab along the way - including servicing additional
men at his reque

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Cross Dressing, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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  • 51 / TS/TV/TG (Cross Dresser)
  • DC, District of Columbia, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Prefer not to say
Looking For:  Men
Birthdate: December 5, 1969
Relocate?: Maybe/Yes
Marital Status: Single
Height: 5 ft 9 in / 175-177 cm
Body Type: Athletic
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I don't use drugs
Education: BA/BS (4 years college)
Occupation: i love my work!
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Agnostic
Have Children: No
Want Children: Maybe
Male Endowment: Long/Thick
Circumcised: Yes
Bra Size: 36 / 80 C
Speaks: English, French
Hair Color: Blonde
Eye Color: Hazel
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