people keep telling me this is a sex site and i shouldn't want / expect to meet with someone first, just jump right into bed. you know, like a great idea. cause great conversation and laughing is way over rated. plus the fact that i am not inviting a complete stranger over to my house. now to explain my intro, i am not looking for anything. if something happens, great. but i don't have expectations (except meeting in public first you perverts) or do i want anyone in my life full time. i am very happy alone. i don't want or need anything from anyone else to make me happy. and finally, please be polite. treat all women on here with respect and courtesy. i am almost certain you will get a much better response. we aren't teenagers in middle school. also, no unsolicited dick pics!!! i for one don't want to see it. leave something to be a surprise oh there is one more thing. the reason i say i am not wantable is because no one askes me out in person. yea plenty of men want to fuck me but if there isn't a drink, lunch, dinner or something first, tough shit

My Ideal Person smart and funny

second one more thing: i do not see anyone named mike, joe, andy, adam, alex or nick. why- dad, ex husband, stepfather and brother and sons. i am not going to scream out someone's name in bed that reminds me of someone in my past or of my sons. that is gross. do u want to fuck someone with your moms name? come on. yea everyone is an individual but i don't want bad memories ruining an orgasm.

couple more things.....i'm not into black men. sorry i've had them and it's not my thing.
i'm not a gold member so if you want me to see your pics you'll have to email them to me
thanks, be safe and have fun!!!