We're lovers...looking to create some extraordinary experiences together. We want to meet others who will help us make our time together more memorable, exciting and adventurous... If we send you an email, a response is a courteous thing to give...we will respond to all messages received from those we want to meet (this means single men will NOT get a response). While she's getting comfortable with her curiosity, he knows he's not at all curious and those men with a curiosity should know to keep it away from playtime with us. There's an age difference between us, but she's not into much older than him for either per involved with us. We're willing to look at pics to see if you look significantly younger and discuss the profile, but if you're both over 50, it would be a special circumstance! If it's an older guy with a younger woman (between our ages) we'd be more open to that type of situation.

My Ideal Person Right now, we are NOT interested in single men...we don't have it checked in our "Want to Meet" section. It's very frustrating to see the flirts and profile views by the single men and not the couples or single ladies!

Our ideal person(s) would be those who are still relatively new to things, or are comfortable with a couple who are new to the scene.

We're not public, we're not party goers...we'd rather meet with a single woman or a couple initially...then, maybe there are a couple of singles and/or couples who might get along well as a group that we can coordinate.

We're open to all but the bbw crowd, it's confidence and attraction that matter most, more lenient with the guy as a part of a couple if she's a hottie...we know Jay is not a Ken doll...the guy should not get winded going up a flight of stairs or walking from the car to the restaurant/bar/hotel.

We're most comfortable when things flow, and when we feel we're controlling pace of play.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
We have met a couple...we're getting along and everyone
seems interested in moving things forward...neither
of us have enough time to make getting a room worth the money,
so we climb into their suv (or van)...the two of us with the
couple's woman...as he drives us around, the girls
begin to play a bit and turn attention to Jay, as they focus
on him the intensity builds and Jay finishes...husband
pulls over and Jay gets behind the wheel, allowing the women
to focus on husband, building intensity and finishing
him off...Jay pulls over and wife climbs into the driver's
seat, allowing Jay and husband to focus on Vivian, getting
her off until at least one of the guys also finishes...wife
pulls over and lets Vivian drive so Jay and husband can focus
on wife until we accomplish similar goals with wife...the
"rotation" continues until we're all
too spent to continue!

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, The stands at a sporting event, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room, Anywhere, semi-public with discretion.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

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