I am ready to meet someone new, but I have found that I am the type of per that likes to be involved with one man. I want the "fwb" but want it known I want a friend outside the bedroom. I want to go do things together, talk by email or text and so on. I am not a fancy woman by any means and don't expect you to pay for everything or lavish gifts on me. But if we develop a "friendship, I want an occasional movie or if you are not local and must travel, at least some conversation, perhaps over a couple of drinks before we have more fun. I have been married going on 34 years...we decided to have an open marriage about 4 or 5 yrs ago but we go our seperate ways. Now that I am not seeing someone exclusive it is time to find someone to have fun with again. I have two grown boys who still live with us but am ready for them to get out on their own and find their own way...So meeting at my house is absolutely out...am looking to meet new people and have some fun along the way. I AM a BBW even though they didn't have that catagory to choose. I am ok with my body...my boobs don't stand up by themselves anymore (lol) and I have lumps and bumps...but am working on it at my own pace....if you have a problem with it, then move along please. As far as the social drug use, am 4:20 friendly only.... I have to add that I would have to get to know you some first before I would consider jumping into bed with you. Some time spent over a couple of drinks is a good way to loosen things up. I can't just jump into bed with someone, I have to like them as a per first. First time meetings MAY NOT mean sex on that day. I have delved into the female on female thing and am not opposed to it if I like the woman. I do not sleep with a lot of different partners. Have never been one to do that even when I was single. I am a casual laid back type of per, don't wear high heels or dresses and skirts, but my clothes are always clean and presentable. So if you think we have things in common and would like to meet to see if there is a connection, then shoot me a message. Not sure how long I will be a gold member, like everyone else, things are tight. But I like to have a good time, love to laugh and hope I can meet someone who is the same. I do have one man that I meet with on occasion and would like to find a female that would join us. If interested, message me and I will fill you in on the details and see if we can make it happen.

My Ideal Person My ideal person to meet and become friends with is an open. honest, and fun one. I love to laugh and cut up and want to meet someone who likes my personality before my physical side. I am very passionate and like either the fast hot sex or the slow tender lovemaking. I want to meet someone that I will actually enjoy talking with about other things besides sex. Although I love to talk about that....LOL They must be a gentleman and have manners. I would want to be able to talk, text or email in between meetings with you. I am upfront and an open book so I would hope you would be also.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
being with an aggressive partner, but not so aggressive
that it scares me

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Threesomes, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Clint Eastwood back in his cowboy movie days, ,, love
the scruffy look and that little cigar

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

View more of jensplace56's responses