I have been on this site in the past and I made a couple casual connections that were good and fun. I'm back to see if anything has changed or to stay and meet new friends... I'm not into any drama at all. I'm here to meet quality people who may want to meet sometime for a fling in the future, but I also really want to know someone and like the per before I get into anything at all. I'm a professional, so I do not have photos on my profile. I'll exchange photos though. I also have maintained friendships for years with (or without ) sex, and then I've stayed friends with women for years and years even if we never had sex or even if we decided to no longer be lovers.... Being intimate starts with our conversations, knowing each other enough to be comfortable about anything, Life is too short not to enjoy it and to make the most of the time we have here. (Update: I plan to go off AFF when my membership expires in March. There have been too many bots on the site lately.)

My Ideal Person I'm looking to develop a good, deep friendship and I'd like to be a friend with benefits who may not always be available, but around from time to time. (I work full-time and often teach extra classes.) Because I'm finishing going through a divorce, I'm a bit gun shy about getting too deeply involved too quickly. Also, I'm a professional, so I don't keep face shots on my profile. However, I do send them to people of interest though. I also like to maintain relationships that develop into something deeper... I'm someone who likes emotional connections, and prefer being a good friend rather than some casual encounter that is fleeting.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Van Morrison, Bruce Springsteen, Joni MItchell, Dave
matthews, Paul Thorn, Diana Krall, Beatles, etc

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Role Playing, Threesomes, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Massage, Lots of kissing, and more and more kissing

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
No, I love real people.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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