October 2014 Life is going great, I hope yours is too. I am now on here playing as a couple. It has been quite a liberating time moving into this type of relationship and has been horizon expanding to say the least. In some ways the openness has provided a stability and strength in this relationship that I never found in most one on one experiences I have had. So party on! If you want to grab life and love it for all it's worth I would like to get to know you:-) Not sure what is going on in my life. Craziness abounds. Sometimes life is like a roller coaster with no seat belts. At least there is fun to be had... Hahahahahah Update 5/6/12 Back for another round yeeee haaaa! I am a certified adrenaline junkie. I Kayak professionally for a living and love new experiences. I enjoy all kinds of outdoor activities but I also enjoy curling up with a good book or movie.I tend to enjoy the sexual side of things with a partner who is open with relatively few hangups (let's face it we all have some kind of hang up). I also find that sex tends to get better the better you get to know the per and the more comfortable you are with your partner (no selfish lovers had enough of that). I would like to have more than a one night stand but that seems to be what a lot of women on here want. Really not into drama so please be honest. I don't want to help you cheat on your partner. Open honesty is valued here. Being promiscuous doesn't mean you have to be an asshole :-) sorry about the sexual digression but it happens. Work is important to me because I love it. I work intensely for part of the year and then I enjoy the off sea with my own interests. I am not a rich man (no sugar daddy). I want someone who knows what they want. I value a free thinker and someone who can have an intelligent discussion. Especially when it comes to a hot topic like religion or politics. If you can't talk about things that are difficult the relationship is doomed from the start. Whether it be friends lovers or more. Just because you disagree doesn't mean u can't love that per. Spicy food is good. I love travel and have worked in central and south america. I speak spanish pretty good I wouldn't say I am fluent but I can communicate well. I live in a small town and love it! Big cities are fun to visit but I wouldn't want to live there. I think cramming too many people into one place and surrounding it with concrete and very few trees is a recipe for disaster and insanity. If any of this sounds interesting let's talk and see what happens from there.

My Ideal Person outgoing, uninhibited, open,independent, comfortable with their own sexuality. Likes to do what I do but also has their own interests. I want a love that challenges me and opens my world a little wider and a little happier.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
talking heads, ozomotli, orishas, red hot chili peppers,
spearhead

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
waking up at any hour to oral sex/intimate touching. then
having really slow sex until we climax. cuddle then repeat.
eventually i bring you breakfast in bed. then we shower
with more teasing til we want the bed again...

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Participating in Erotic Photography, Massage

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
cameron diaz. she has a great ass and she is funny

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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