Not looking for casual meaningless sex. I want to find passion, connection, and YES even love in the person I choose to share my time and myself with sexually. If none of this sounds like what you want, please don't waste either of our time. Can not view profiles, membership lagged for the moment. Debating whether to renew. Age bracket may not matter to you but it does to me, that's why I added it. Just my preference, thank you. If you are a scammer or into playing with heads, dont waste either of our time, keep walking. If you think the word sub means obey everyone, you are not a real Dom and need not bother here either, I'm pretty over explaining the difference. Dominant man does not mean you are a Dom. At this point, I have managed without one and survived perfectly well in my exploration so I will not settle for someone into intimidating women for kicks . I also won't be bullied into believing someone who isn't aware of the balance within a dynamic, it is truly what I need. I am a loyal, caring, passionate, kinky, dirty girl but those qualities are only shared with those who i feel deserve them and I know will take the time to know me. I am a special valuable pleaser who doesnt spread her legs for anyone I dont care about and who doesnt feel the same.

My Ideal Person I'd love to find my lobster. Someone who will lift me up not bring me down. That individual who gets my humor, my insights and enjoys them. Ideally, Im not looking for just a good time Charley, I want the whole package delving into all kinds of mischievious activities while making sure Im on it for my job and life. Id love to find a person I can get lost in but still outwardly kick butt in my daily life. In the meantime, I want to find like minded people to enjoy my free time with when I can. 35 to 60 year old men only please.