OK folks, I am a 46 yo married white male seeking open minded ladies/cples, life is zipping by and its time to add some fun and spice back into my life. Did you know that >20M couples in north america are in what is considered "sexless" relationships? I suspect that some of you, are looking for ways to enhance that part of your life. I am one such individual. I am not looking to bed hop or find multiple partners, just a hot married lady who is seeking to add a spark back in her life, perhaps one who is at a point where she wants to explore some hidden desires that have to date been unmet. I am sane, clean and discreet,seeking the same in a partner, one who is ready for an affair but otherwise is comfortable in her own life and not looking to make any changes. Health and discretion of course is critical as I am not looking to bring any unwanted baggage home to my otherwise great life. I live in the Oakville area and due to the nature of my job I have flexibilty during the daytime. I do travel into the GTA, Ottawa and Windsor monthly and would consider a connection out of town as I can entertain, if you are seeking a casual relationship with that level of frequency. The idea of hooking up with a cple for 3sum fun is more than a passing fantasy, I would love to find such an option, again though, once I have made a connection, I am not looking to expand beyond what we are comfortable with. The more people one meets in this lifestyle, the odds of making a bad choice increases, hence I will be selective. If you are an open minded lady or cpl,seeking a fun loving kinky, open minded male for passions of the mind and body please contatc me and lets get to know each other. I love oral sex, love to please and be the "giver", more than the "givee"...consider myself an unselfish lover, seeking first to please, then enjoy the rewards that ensue. I have a playful side that imagines toys and role plays to be a fun addition to our play, s, seduction of the mind must come before pleasures of the body...if one captures the mind the body and soul will follow naturally.

My Ideal Person in a cpl, one that is open minded and curious to explore the ways in which 3 can bring pleasure, ideally, family oriented, that way we are sharing the same "risks" and hence dicretion in our choices.

In a lady, 28-40, married, again with kids, one that has not been pampered and attended to for too long. One that seeks to ignite some passion back into her life, one that wants to find a lover who, when not with her, she thinks about in his absence, one that is anxious to feel the touch of his lips and his tongue caressing every inch of your hot seductive body..one who proudly takes care of her body, enjoys lingerie and dressing for play..one who enjoys and can accept the occassional gift from her lover so he can demonstrate her seductive power over him.

with any luck this will resonate with some delightfully erotic lady or cpl and we can become intimate friends.