NOTICE: I will be right up front here - Ladies and couples - if you are looking for a one night stand, please pass me by. I am looking for FWB for ongoing play and am not interested in the one night thang (been there and done that a long time ago in my life). Just sayin. My drug of choice is sex, if yours is anything else, please pass me by. I am also not interested in drunk sex. If you have to drink, you go numb and can't feel anything, it is more fun when you can feel it, trust me. Plus, part of the fun is the anticipation of the meet. Straight is better, more exciting and erotic. I like to focus ALL my attention on the woman or the couple. It is not about me, it is about us. I like to fuck all night and try fun things. I am single now because I lost my play partner (wife) to cancer. We would bring in select women and men (mostly friends) from time to time and really had a lot of fun. I am very real and really would like to meet a woman or couple for a ongoing fun relationship. Local would be better, but will consider a little distance. I have been on AFF for a while but I am very particular about who I meet and have gone on only meets that I feel comfortable and compatible. I love passion and sensual excitement! I love to dress up classy and I am clean and d/d free and expect the same of others. If you are new to the lifestyle, please educate yourself first on how it works. Be respectful and polite and cordial. Fulfilling sensual fantasies is about the journey and not the destination. Be patient and you will have more fun and enjoyment with those you meet that are compatible and interested in you for play. I am very professional and have a high profile job and need to be discrete. I am also very busy so please be patient with me if you want to meet me. I will respond. I do have a kinky side to me (and if you don't, you should not be here). Why not take a chance and shoot me a message and let's have some fun together? Promise I do not bite...only nibble a little. I am very sexy, in EXTREMELY great shape and lots of fun (in bed and out). I love to be naked when I am home alone (or with friends!). I am sure you like that as well because it is liberating, right? I am up for just about anything. I have been flirted with and added to friends lists, added to hotlists, and all this means nothing unless you message me and then I will respond in time. Try it and I guarantee you'll like me! I have a great sense of humor also. If we have a mutual interest, I will respond or contact you. If you are also interested, send me a message please and then I will respond but please be patient as I am not always on the site every day. I work out daily so that my body is tuned and sexy. I don't like a lot of body hair so ladies, shave it if you want to meet me. And guys, well, just go get a recent magazine so you can see what is "in" and you may understand it also and clean yourself as well. The kind of lady that attracts me likes oral also and hairy does not cut it for me (my tastes). If you are looking on this site, I can assume that you want to have some discrete sexy fun, otherwise you would be on POF or some other site. If you are new to the lifestyle, making contact through the message feature may also allow you to explore a little before you "gulp" and get over the nervous anticipation that is keeping you from making contact. Maybe this is a first time for you or both of you (how fun is that, right?). If you are not new to the lifestyle, then tell me what you are looking for please. You will not be disappointed .... Please contact me so we can at least "chat" about what are your desires (you might have the most fun ever). I am up for just about anything you can fantasize within rea. I also own a boat and love the sun and outdoors! Love summer! I have a hot tub under the stars....just sayin. I ski both summer and winter. If you are truly fun and want to have a great time send me a message on the site and I will respond but please be patient. I will also send face and bod pictures back to you when you contact me upon request. I believe I have a nice package (and I have God to thank - and my parents...LOL!), but I do not think guys should just post up their dick as their main profile picture - It is not about "getting laid" it is about having a sensual and exciting sexual experience - just sayin). Have a great day and thanks for looking! Love your friends (literally)!

My Ideal Person At this point, woman or couple with fantasy in mind to try something new and have some good clean fun. We'll see where it goes from there!

First meet - Coffee is usually a good bet.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
Not yet, but I definitely want to try it.

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