I have a wonderful partner who has been hit hard by menopause and has no sex drive left. Mine is still strong so here I am looking for a regular, discreet play friend or couple. I like couples. I'm clean, play safe, respectful and fun. Very oral, Masculine, can be dominant and love to service. Non-smoker, friendly, occasional glass of wine. A silver dad, stocky, not sloppy. Think Hemmingway. I live on Maui, so thanks but no thanks to those on BI and Oahu, I can only occasionally host, happy to come to you, flex schedule.