we are an attached couple--he,a top management functionary and she,a university professor.our spouses are not on board with us in our swinging explorations .nevertheless ,we stay steadfast in our emotional commitment to our respective families,though we stray away in between for joint sexcapades. we are quite active,rather proactive in our extramarital pursuits.we meet a new couple every quarter on an average.we feel it is better to wear out than rust out in the efflux of time. the odium associated with adulterous and amorous liais had restrained us ,weaned on middleclass morality,from biting the bullet eventhough we had been smarting under the irksome boredom and tedium of ritualistic stultifying sex in our established family lives.after tasting the 'forbidden fruit'we have veered around the view that consensual sex among compatible adults with similar ideas and desires is the best that can happen to people like us (PLUs)in the throes of mid-life crisis and who want to dare to deviate and experience the thrill of our skill and will.we have liked this life-style in an unabashed abandon with the urge to merge with those with the right chemistry and compatibility as often as we can. we love the dainty appetisers and starters...the irresistable horsdoeuvres and certainly the delicious desserts,as much as the main course.but we can relish the generous servings of the delectable dish,the classy,quirky fare only if we are able to savour the flavours in an unhurried pace in a completely relaxed ambience,however lip-smacking or mouth-watering the delicacies may be.we have found that the post-coital repose is the best nourishment and refreshment for the soul;we feel sated,but often to rise again with renewed and redoubled verve and vigour with the appetite getting whetted,salivating at the prospect of an encore.hence those seeking quickies may please avoid us.we also like day-long orgies with3/4 couples especially the middle-aged pairs who are bored with the mind-numbing iciness of routinised sex and crave spiciness. the world belongs to all--the wedded,the bedded,the single,the unattached,the separated,the divorced,the widowed,daters,maters etc.in all shapes and sizes.but we want to connect with cultured and educated couples only,preferably 40y +,married or otherwise,who are upfront in articulating and acting upon their needs and wants and who do not entertain retrograde notions about sexuality under the veneer of moralistic clap-trap. we are not swayed by the so called 'good looks' or smooth talks or stilted conversations or weasel words.we do not indulge in webcam shows or in perfunctory social meets.we have seen a lot can happen over a meeting immediately prior to a randy rendezvous.PLUs,after all,can spot birds of same or similar feather instantaneously.we have actual and anecdotal evidence that PLUs who articulate well copulate also equally well.

My Ideal Person sexually open couples and women on the look-out for clean safe fun and unadulterated carnal pleasures,who can rest assured that no inch of their bodies will be left unattended to with our nimble fingers or slithery tongues or our precious organs.to be more specific,those folks with' je ne sais quoi' that sets them as a breed apart,those neophytes who are not nebbish,those veterans with the capacity for' joie de vivre' but have a lot of compassion for comrades along with red-hot passion,those who are adept at textual intercourse,verbal banter and who radiate grace and poise to spread cheer all around with the requisite' savoir faire' and 'espirit de corps'.

we have an intimate network of socially compatible die-hard buddies who apart from being 'partners in sin' are steadfast friends too.we are picky in choosing chums to befriend.