First, IF you're a Gold member and if you're interested in me, PLEASE!, send me an email: mdtom3 at the 'hoo' and I'll reply. This especially if you live 'close' to me, as I'm looking for a long term play partner(s). I am very Discrete, so you don't need to worry otherwise. [B][COLOR red]I've changed my profile photo to show me wearing a pair of Thigh High Stockings. I enjoy wearing them in cold weather, and when I'm in the 'Mood'! Now, that can mean when I'm horny and want to 'play' and suck a cock and be 'Mounted' or just when I feel like it! As a bi guy, I am looking for a nice 'Dom'. He doesn't have to have a LARGE cock, just a regular sized one of 6" would do nicely! That is, if THIS is what you want. A couple would be very nice. Your wife, or girlfriend, doesn't have to feel 'threatened', I'd be there to serve the BOTH of you, IF that's what you both would desire. As I've mentioned, I'm VERY discrete, and I'd want you both [/B]to be also.[/COLOR] I'm a Bi guy, looking for long term friends, including ladies. I'd like to be a part of a small group of friends, who are very discrete. I'm well educated, easy to get along with. I like to cook, plant flowers, watch movies, go for long drives in the mountains, make love outside. I'm retired but sometimes I feel like I'd like to go back to work part time. Got lots of time. I have a BLOG, accessed at the bottom of my PROFILE, past the astrology section, labeled as 'MY BLOG'. It tells of how I first got started and here at Adult FriendFinder That info is also on my profile somewhere. I'm married, but swing alone. Sometimes, it's difficult for me to get away, but, at times, I can manage it if it's not too far away. I like to suck, but only someone I'd like, not just anyone. I'm also looking for a small group of swing friends with whom I can get with, be nude with, and just relax with and give them a BJ while the rest are watching, or get screwed, while the rest either watch or are fucking/sucking, or both! Afterall, isn't that why we're all here? I'm just up front and honest about what I'm looking for. There are many women who just want to be fucked once in a while, whether or not they're married. They don't want to upset the other part of their life, or others' life, they just want to take care of that little bit of business, so to speak. AND, that's why I'm here. I'm just like they are: I want to find someone I can trust, whom I can suck, be nude with and for them to mount me and fuck me. It'd be great to find some few steady partners, both men and women, to play with and trust and meet with to play with on a somewhat 'regular' basis, say, once a month, or so. Even though I'm BI and like to suck a nice cock, I'd also like to be with a good woman and please her. after all, two guys and a woman can have some pleasing times regularly when you get with them, and make good friends with them. I'd like to have the same group of friends whom I can play with monthly.

My Ideal Person I'm looking for a small group of friends, with benefits, to play with a couple of times a month. Be discrete. They can be couples, husband/wife, singles, guys or ladies. I'm Bi but with the right people. If you're a bi guy and I get along with you, and everything 'clicks', we'll play. If you're a lady, and if we get along then we can also play. If you're a lady, don't be put off with me being bi, that just means that I enjoy you more and am willing to do that much more for you, if you like, especially, if you're the dominate kind, which I do like.
I'm on the submissive side, so, if you're a bit of a dom, either female or a bimale, message me!
If you're a Lady, and not getting what you want and we'll talk, that won't hurt, so don't be hesitant.
I've been to nude beaches, been with couples, single ladies and guys. Being nude around like minded folks is very comfortable for me. Hope to hear from some of you.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Role Playing, Threesomes, Cross Dressing, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Watching my wife sucking or being fucked if she approves

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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