He has a Hall Pass tonight (9-14) and next weekend (21-23)!!!! Someone help him put it to use! And send me pics!!! We're new to the lifestyle, we've had a few experiences with friends but it was a one time thing for them. We both enjoyed it so now we're looking to try more. We thought about the clubs but we're both kind of shy and would probably be too nervous to approach anyone, so we'd probably come off as stuck up or snobby, we're hoping a more laid back 1-on-1, meet at a regular place for drinks would go a little better. He has some experience with this from before we met, she is all new to the lifestyle. Right now, her limits are watching/being watched, same room sex, MAYBE soft swapping for her and she's probably ok with full swap for him, but she needs to know someone and be attracted and feel some amount of connection before she'll have sex. His limits are anything goes including full swapping for her as long as she's ok with it. Our experience so far as a couple is a lot of drunken naked fooling around/groping/making out with one of her friends, a threesome with one of her friends (no sex between him and the friend) and one threesome with one of her friends (with sex between him and the friend). She's kissed and made out with girls and played with sucked boobs and had a girl go down on her but that's as far as she's gone so far. We also like sharing our pics and we both like when he's showing off in per, she's usually a little more reserved in per as far as showing off the girls, but he's perfectly ok if she does. Finally, we both have the kind of jobs where we can show our face on here, including sending in messages. We do have an email just for this site, and eventually after exchanging at least a few messages would be ok with that, but we can't send them out until we at least feel like we're talking to real people as opposed to Russian hackers or identity thieves.

My Ideal Person Around our age, women definitely, couples probably, guys maybe once she's a little more comfortable with the idea, but we'll contact you. We're not supermodels, but we're looking for people who are attractive, clean, not morbidly obese. Drinking is ok, smoking is probably ok, drug use is out, at least around us. Within 30-45 minutes of Cincinnati. We can host sometimes but not always so you need to be able to host sometimes too. Ideally someone with some experience but not so much they're pushy. Also it should go without saying but you should bathe and brush your teeth. Our age range is up to about 40-45, and theres not really a polite way to say it but the higher up there you get the hotter you have to be.

Also a private back yard with a hot tub and/or pool can only help